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Hey Ladies

Honestly you dont just meet someone, and constitutes them as being a Friend,

Friendship is like planting a tree, it takes a lot of time and years to develope into a real kinship for each other. When I met someone, I dont automatically assume that person to be a friend, they are what I would consider an associate or someone I just met, because I dont have a clue about them. And one thing I dont and never never do is let a associate know all of my business, why would you? theres just some things you dont tell, a associate but their are things that you would tell a friend, You have to be able to tell the difference between the two. Ive got two really really Good Friends, and we have been friends for what seems like forever and I got a hundred associates, like I said before its like planting a tree, and we all know how long that takes to grow.

I TOTALLY agree about what you say about friends...The word friend should nott be used lightly.I want a friend that I can trust around my hubby,and not found that real friend yet in a woman either,so I know where you come from...I hav'nt lost a man over a friend but dont want to either,so Im very caution about who I hang with or bring to my house...So I know where your coming from with it comes to trusting a person and calling them a real friend..I enjoied the reading and hope we all find wonderful friends,and knowing in our hearts,their true friends...Anywho, God bless you all,and may you find a awsome real friend for life....

Your right Cassy.If you set back and listen instead of doing all the talking,you'll learn a lot about the person.How they talk to other is how they will talk to you sooner or later..My oute for any kind of relationship is "You'll listen or you'll learn"....When it comes to calling someone a friend,before you know their truly a friend..I agree with you cassy,their all associate...and I have some great associates...And I have lots of fun with,but to call them friends right now,I have to say,(NO)..Keep the opinons coming on the friendship question...Thanks to all!!!

So were on the same page College08 you have to learn or feel a person out before you let them completely in.