2) Our spouses are not our possessions. 3) In a perfect world we would have sex with our friends in the same way we hug or kiss them...just to do something nice with them or for them...
2) Our spouses are not our possessions. 3) In a perfect world we would have sex with our friends in the same way we hug or kiss them...just to do something nice with them or for them...
Nobody can own another person, so it's hard to disagree with #2. You may have overstated #3. I have a lot of friends I don't want to have sex with. But I find a grain of agreement with the sentiment ... would it be a better world if people that were mutually inclined could have sex a little more freely -- yes I'd vote for that. As for monogomous "demands" that's between you and your partner.
Nobody can own another person, so it's hard to disagree with #2. You may have overstated #3. I have a lot of friends I don't want to have sex with. But I find a grain of agreement with the sentiment ... would it be a better world if people that were mutually inclined could have sex a little more freely -- yes I'd vote for that. As for monogomous "demands" that's between you and your partner.
Tammy, I am not a prude. I have deep faith convictions that I don't force on anybody else.
Tammy, I am not a prude. I have deep faith convictions that I don't force on anybody else.
Who said YOU are a prude? I was not talking about YOU. I guess you are feeling a little insecure, uncomfortable, guilty, self-centered, self-righteous, self-absorb, unsure, or something!?!?!?
It's funny that you thought I was talking about you.
Who said YOU are a prude? I was not talking about YOU. I guess you are feeling a little insecure, uncomfortable, guilty, self-centered, self-righteous, self-absorb, unsure, or something!?!?!?
It's funny that you thought I was talking about you.
Well, just because you don't like threesomes (not that great), anal, water sports, group sex, oral sex with chocolate, or swallowing, doesn't mean I am against you or with you. The only spouses that are possessions are J.Lo's husband and that guy from Law & Order's trophy wife.
I think some people on here get hung up on the problem rather than doing something about the problem.
If you can't stand the heat in the kitchen, get out. You're repressed not me.
I agree on #2 but #4 makes sex better.
Well, just because you don't like threesomes (not that great), anal, water sports, group sex, oral sex with chocolate, or swallowing, doesn't mean I am against you or with you. The only spouses that are possessions are J.Lo's husband and that guy from Law & Order's trophy wife.
I think some people on here get hung up on the problem rather than doing something about the problem.
If you can't stand the heat in the kitchen, get out. You're repressed not me.
I agree on #2 but #4 makes sex better.
As I thought...sex is a God/Spirituality issue for most people.
The older I get, the more I see and the more I have come to question the programming I've lived with since childhood. It is difficult to cast off one's belief system even when it does not make logical sense. We are told to accept it on faith...kind of convenient, I think.
As I thought...sex is a God/Spirituality issue for most people.
The older I get, the more I see and the more I have come to question the programming I've lived with since childhood. It is difficult to cast off one's belief system even when it does not make logical sense. We are told to accept it on faith...kind of convenient, I think.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3VAEYEG53w
This is what TBD is about..sharing ideas and thoughts. On the subject of spouses being possesions..well they arent posessions, but they make a commitment to each other and to keep something as important as sex to themselves without concern for your partners needs is a bigger issue in america than anyone will admit. Sex is a very important part of marriage and life..that cannot be denied.
This is what TBD is about..sharing ideas and thoughts. On the subject of spouses being possesions..well they arent posessions, but they make a commitment to each other and to keep something as important as sex to themselves without concern for your partners needs is a bigger issue in america than anyone will admit. Sex is a very important part of marriage and life..that cannot be denied.
Posted: Jun 11, 08 1:01pm
2) Our spouses are not our possessions. 3) In a perfect world we would have sex with our friends in the same way we hug or kiss them...just to do something nice with them or for them...
Nobody can own another person, so it's hard to disagree with #2. You may have overstated #3. I have a lot of friends I don't want to have sex with. But I find a grain of agreement with the sentiment ... would it be a better world if people that were mutually inclined could have sex a little more freely -- yes I'd vote for that. As for monogomous "demands" that's between you and your partner.
Posted: Jun 11, 08 1:30pm
Damn. Why don't you tell us how you really feel.
Posted: Jun 12, 08 6:10pm
Tammy, I am not a prude. I have deep faith convictions that I don't force on anybody else.
Who said YOU are a prude? I was not talking about YOU. I guess you are feeling a little insecure, uncomfortable, guilty, self-centered, self-righteous, self-absorb, unsure, or something!?!?!?
It's funny that you thought I was talking about you.
Posted: Jun 12, 08 7:34pm
I'm with Sister Golden Hair on this one. We all have our dreams of a perfect world!
Posted: Jun 12, 08 9:35pm
Well, just because you don't like threesomes (not that great), anal, water sports, group sex, oral sex with chocolate, or swallowing, doesn't mean I am against you or with you. The only spouses that are possessions are J.Lo's husband and that guy from Law & Order's trophy wife.
I think some people on here get hung up on the problem rather than doing something about the problem.
If you can't stand the heat in the kitchen, get out. You're repressed not me.
I agree on #2 but #4 makes sex better.
Posted: Oct 16, 08 1:23pm
As I thought...sex is a God/Spirituality issue for most people.
The older I get, the more I see and the more I have come to question the programming I've lived with since childhood. It is difficult to cast off one's belief system even when it does not make logical sense. We are told to accept it on faith...kind of convenient, I think.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y3VAEYEG53w
Posted: Oct 16, 08 1:33pm
This is what TBD is about..sharing ideas and thoughts. On the subject of spouses being possesions..well they arent posessions, but they make a commitment to each other and to keep something as important as sex to themselves without concern for your partners needs is a bigger issue in america than anyone will admit. Sex is a very important part of marriage and life..that cannot be denied.