I didn't read through all the comments but I've found that those who resort to name calling do so because it's easier to insult those who disagree with you than to have an actual exchange of ideas. It's alright to disagree with others. I'm a Christian who believes the Bible is God's word. I know there are many who do not accept the Bible as God's word. I know there are many who interpret the Bible differently than I. OK. Perhaps we can find a common ground and go from there. We can disagree on politics or religion or even how we discipline our children but I'll bet we agree on how precious our children are. I"ll be we can agree that we love our children--no matter what they do. And we go from there. If we can't ever agree on some things then we leave it at that and we don't resort to name calling.

We have a choice to respond to the content of what someone says, or to question their intentions and call them on what they're trying to do.

Great post, and some very insightful comments. I did read them all. Honestly, I do try to be respectful and honor the right to express opinions, but must state my feelings on the name calling and bullying is not entertainment or enjoyable for me. I have made comments and when I express to the attacker my view, sometimes they apologize, only later to slam me in some other way, others were sincere and we have reached an understanding and have in some cases become friends, or agreed to disagree. There is not good reason to insult, or be abusive to one another here. We are hear to share, express ideas, insights and thought, not insult, belittle, badger or attack.

I admit I have left some threads as some tbd'rs seem to begin a rant and rage when opinions differ, or for some to simply disrupt the thread. Some times I like the silly banter, sometimes I wish the thread was more on topic. I cannot take all of this too seriously, and those threads that peak my interest or my entertainment needs, or personal interests I participate in. Those that offer good content but have those with it that might not choose to address, I will read along, and rarely participate unless truly moved to do so. It is not a fear of attack, but that I have no need to argue or open myself to such drama or immaturity. I have no need to be right, only a wish to share and grow. Peace all.(didn't mean to go on so long- smiles)

eve123 you pulled together all the points really well...thank you!

Thanx for your good input Lobo and CocoaandMe!

you are kind, thank you for allowing me to share here and starting this thread. Glad you did.