jo, this is my take on all the pm's you've received. don't push yourself to answer them all. you can answer them right here. i've deliberately not sent you a pm because i was certain that you were being overwhelmed by them and who knows how many the mail box will hold like Earende said.
this is all happening for specific reasons honey - why that is may not yet be apparent, but i'm guessing that like me, learning to ask for help is partially about asking for acceptance and love and you and i and many other sisters and brothers, aunts and uncles here are going through similar if not the same things. don't allow yourself to feel pressured or to feel obligated. we all just want YOU to know how we feel without anything back from you in return.
give in. hand it over. and let others take care of you. you MUST try to do this Jo, please! when i've done it, my heart was just so filled with love by those who've helped me. when i fell in the middle of the street, even the strangers who came to help me up caused such a swelling of love inside me. before i would have insisted it was nothing and that i was fine when i wasn't. be my buddy in this. you can always, always find me on The Grumpies Group since I usually check in on it numerous times a day. And you'll find rosiebear, dottie, della, the dylexic dodger, and others - bubbadee is back and forth in his move to FL.
come when you can even if you just feel like lurking sweetie!
love you - big smoochies and hugs and all the very best positive thoughts and prayers coming your way!!!!!
jo, this is my take on all the pm's you've received. don't push yourself to answer them all. you can answer them right here. i've deliberately not sent you a pm because i was certain that you were being overwhelmed by them and who knows how many the mail box will hold like Earende said.
this is all happening for specific reasons honey - why that is may not yet be apparent, but i'm guessing that like me, learning to ask for help is partially about asking for acceptance and love and you and i and many other sisters and brothers, aunts and uncles here are going through similar if not the same things. don't allow yourself to feel pressured or to feel obligated. we all just want YOU to know how we feel without anything back from you in return.
give in. hand it over. and let others take care of you. you MUST try to do this Jo, please! when i've done it, my heart was just so filled with love by those who've helped me. when i fell in the middle of the street, even the strangers who came to help me up caused such a swelling of love inside me. before i would have insisted it was nothing and that i was fine when i wasn't. be my buddy in this. you can always, always find me on The Grumpies Group since I usually check in on it numerous times a day. And you'll find rosiebear, dottie, della, the dylexic dodger, and others - bubbadee is back and forth in his move to FL.
http://www.tbd.com/group/506/discussion/193661/show
come when you can even if you just feel like lurking sweetie!
love you - big smoochies and hugs and all the very best positive thoughts and prayers coming your way!!!!!
jo, this is my take on all the pm's you've received. don't push yourself to answer them all. you can answer them right here. i've deliberately not sent you a pm because i was certain that you were being overwhelmed by them and who knows how many the mail box will hold like Earende said.
this is all happening for specific reasons honey - why that is may not yet be apparent, but i'm guessing that like me, learning to ask for help is partially about asking for acceptance and love and you and i and many other sisters and brothers, aunts and uncles here are going through similar if not the same things. don't allow yourself to feel pressured or to feel obligated. we all just want YOU to know how we feel without anything back from you in return.
give in. hand it over. and let others take care of you. you MUST try to do this Jo, please! when i've done it, my heart was just so filled with love by those who've helped me. when i fell in the middle of the street, even the strangers who came to help me up caused such a swelling of love inside me. before i would have insisted it was nothing and that i was fine when i wasn't. be my buddy in this. you can always, always find me on The Grumpies Group since I usually check in on it numerous times a day. And you'll find rosiebear, dottie, della, the dylexic dodger, and others - bubbadee is back and forth in his move to FL.
come when you can even if you just feel like lurking sweetie!
love you - big smoochies and hugs and all the very best positive thoughts and prayers coming your way!!!!!
jo, this is my take on all the pm's you've received. don't push yourself to answer them all. you can answer them right here. i've deliberately not sent you a pm because i was certain that you were being overwhelmed by them and who knows how many the mail box will hold like Earende said.
this is all happening for specific reasons honey - why that is may not yet be apparent, but i'm guessing that like me, learning to ask for help is partially about asking for acceptance and love and you and i and many other sisters and brothers, aunts and uncles here are going through similar if not the same things. don't allow yourself to feel pressured or to feel obligated. we all just want YOU to know how we feel without anything back from you in return.
give in. hand it over. and let others take care of you. you MUST try to do this Jo, please! when i've done it, my heart was just so filled with love by those who've helped me. when i fell in the middle of the street, even the strangers who came to help me up caused such a swelling of love inside me. before i would have insisted it was nothing and that i was fine when i wasn't. be my buddy in this. you can always, always find me on The Grumpies Group since I usually check in on it numerous times a day. And you'll find rosiebear, dottie, della, the dylexic dodger, and others - bubbadee is back and forth in his move to FL.
http://www.tbd.com/group/506/discussion/193661/show
come when you can even if you just feel like lurking sweetie!
love you - big smoochies and hugs and all the very best positive thoughts and prayers coming your way!!!!!
I am getting ready to give the boys their bath and try to get every one settled in to bed - wish me luck! };-> so I will be signing out for the night. I need all of you more than you can imagine. I am kissing all of you goodnight now on the screen - hmmm.... tastes like chicken!
All my love, Jo
I am getting ready to give the boys their bath and try to get every one settled in to bed - wish me luck! };-> so I will be signing out for the night. I need all of you more than you can imagine. I am kissing all of you goodnight now on the screen - hmmm.... tastes like chicken!
All my love, Jo
Posted: Jun 25, 08 6:01pm
jo, this is my take on all the pm's you've received. don't push yourself to answer them all. you can answer them right here. i've deliberately not sent you a pm because i was certain that you were being overwhelmed by them and who knows how many the mail box will hold like Earende said.
this is all happening for specific reasons honey - why that is may not yet be apparent, but i'm guessing that like me, learning to ask for help is partially about asking for acceptance and love and you and i and many other sisters and brothers, aunts and uncles here are going through similar if not the same things. don't allow yourself to feel pressured or to feel obligated. we all just want YOU to know how we feel without anything back from you in return.
give in. hand it over. and let others take care of you. you MUST try to do this Jo, please! when i've done it, my heart was just so filled with love by those who've helped me. when i fell in the middle of the street, even the strangers who came to help me up caused such a swelling of love inside me. before i would have insisted it was nothing and that i was fine when i wasn't. be my buddy in this. you can always, always find me on The Grumpies Group since I usually check in on it numerous times a day. And you'll find rosiebear, dottie, della, the dylexic dodger, and others - bubbadee is back and forth in his move to FL.
http://www.tbd.com/group/506/discussion/193661/show
come when you can even if you just feel like lurking sweetie!
love you - big smoochies and hugs and all the very best positive thoughts and prayers coming your way!!!!!
Posted: Jun 25, 08 6:14pm
jo, this is my take on all the pm's you've received. don't push yourself to answer them all. you can answer them right here. i've deliberately not sent you a pm because i was certain that you were being overwhelmed by them and who knows how many the mail box will hold like Earende said.
this is all happening for specific reasons honey - why that is may not yet be apparent, but i'm guessing that like me, learning to ask for help is partially about asking for acceptance and love and you and i and many other sisters and brothers, aunts and uncles here are going through similar if not the same things. don't allow yourself to feel pressured or to feel obligated. we all just want YOU to know how we feel without anything back from you in return.
give in. hand it over. and let others take care of you. you MUST try to do this Jo, please! when i've done it, my heart was just so filled with love by those who've helped me. when i fell in the middle of the street, even the strangers who came to help me up caused such a swelling of love inside me. before i would have insisted it was nothing and that i was fine when i wasn't. be my buddy in this. you can always, always find me on The Grumpies Group since I usually check in on it numerous times a day. And you'll find rosiebear, dottie, della, the dylexic dodger, and others - bubbadee is back and forth in his move to FL.
http://www.tbd.com/group/506/discussion/193661/show
come when you can even if you just feel like lurking sweetie!
love you - big smoochies and hugs and all the very best positive thoughts and prayers coming your way!!!!!
I am getting ready to give the boys their bath and try to get every one settled in to bed - wish me luck! };-> so I will be signing out for the night. I need all of you more than you can imagine. I am kissing all of you goodnight now on the screen - hmmm.... tastes like chicken!
All my love, Jo
Posted: Jun 25, 08 7:22pm
YOU ARE SOOOOO LUCKY!
my screen tastes like dust.