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I like to dress provocatively but I am not interested in more.

Posted: Jul 5, 08 7:38pm

I like to get the attention of men by dressing sexy.

It may sound strange but I think that I am sexually withdrawn at the same time.

I don’t want to get into details but I have not had sex in a while.

I like it when men look at me. It turns me on to pick out outfits and I get excited when I go out wearing something provocative. I like the thrill of wearing something revealing in public. But I don’t want to pick up someone.

I just want to feel desired. I love it when men can’t help themselves and stare at me.

But I am not interested to get to know them are anything else.

Can anyone relate to this?

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40snfabulous

Posted: Jul 5, 08 8:20pm

Sure! It's control, dear. You put on a sexy outfit and men drool. You are in control!

Don't worry, lots of us have this button.

But, no sex????

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FrustratedinAtlanta

Posted: Jul 5, 08 9:56pm

So basically your just a tease.

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monica R

Posted: Jul 5, 08 11:06pm

This is gonna sound totally stupid! But here I go, Im just the opposite I dont like men to stare at me. I never make eye contact when out and about! I just look straight ahead! And Im just a shorts and t-shirt kinda lady no frills here! LOL!

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Bill Savio

Posted: Jul 6, 08 12:09am

Amy--the fact you are not interested makes you even more exciting!! "not interested in more" definitely gets communicated (don't ask me how, but it does) in subtle ways. Here's a tip: next time you are dressing to provoke, wear a short skirt and show some panty to a guy. Watch him squrim! Put your hand under your skirt just for a second while talking about something totally not sexy--so do not acknowledge what you just did, go on talking, and then smell your finger! This is prime teasing behavior

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MichaelCastleman

Posted: Jul 6, 08 12:10pm

Sounds to me like you have an exhibitionistic streak. From the surveys I've read, it appears that to 2% of the population is exhibitionist. So yes, many people can relate to and identify with your feelings--in a nation of some 200 million adults, perhaps as many 4 million.

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SusieQ321

Posted: Jul 6, 08 12:28pm

It is a complete power trip to know you have someone's attention and that you are holding it.... and it fascinates me too... I love dressing up and knowing I have a man's attention and teasing them although I never take it as far as Bill's says I should!

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bob dell

Posted: Jul 6, 08 5:24pm

Wow, not fair.. No way could a man do that tease shit to a woman,,but I'd like to be there to watch you!!! OH the humanity of it all!!! [oh,horny me!]

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