From the original post: 2008-01-08 20:45:27.0 A survey in the New York Times magazine (May 7, 2000), asked married couples: "As long as you're sexually... |  ADVERTISEMENT  |
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From the original post: 2008-01-08 20:45:27.0 A survey in the New York Times magazine (May 7, 2000), asked married couples: "As long as you're sexually... | ADVERTISEMENT |
Posted: Jun 15, 08 6:16am
My question would be, "Why feel guilty for something you have little or no control over?"
I recently woke from a dream in which I was involved in a dalliance with a co-worker. In reality, I'm not particularly attracted to this person, but it still made for a pleasant fantasy.
Posted: Jun 21, 08 7:00pm
This is great and i love to write erotic... not porn erotic and tastefully. A real turn on. As I write and think of a favorite man I can get lost in the words and actually forget what i am writing... I sent to a friend and he said he though he had never been that turned on in his life.
Posted: Jun 21, 08 7:07pm
Where does guilt really come from anyway? Isn't is a result of values others try to cram into us?
Anyhow I do fantasize like any normal person does. That said I do like to keep my eyes open during sex and my wife is quite good looking so that helps! ;)
On the other hand she does not keep her eyes open so I occasionally blow air into them so that she opens them.
Posted: Jun 21, 08 7:13pm
Generationman probably has a rotten sex life and that's why he spends his time thinking of more "noble " deeds. Personally, I think it would be a turn on to share fantasies while having sex.
After reading Generationman's profile, along with his comments here, I'm not sure why he's even bothering with TBD. Perhaps he needs to move on to someplace that more suits his disposition...
Posted: Jun 21, 08 7:49pm
After reading Generationman's profile, along with his comments here, I'm not sure why he's even bothering with TBD. Perhaps he needs to move on to someplace that more suits his disposition...
Ark, I think he's flyguy44's brother-in-law !!
Posted: Jul 8, 08 9:59am
God, I started fantasizing long before I ever had sex, so when I started it was just natural. I never thought not to do it. I was 17 when I met my husband and it never bothered him, either. Why would I make it harder on myself to completely enjoy myself? There's only a few things in life you can truly look forward to enjoying!
Posted: Jul 10, 08 5:36pm
The Bible states the marriage bed is undefiled.....as long as both partners agree.....what is life without dreams....I have a wonderful sex life and I enjoy acting out fantasies with my mate. I do not feel guilty sex was God's idea and a true gift. I enjoy the art of making love and becoming one. My mate never knows what awaits him....mystery and surprises oh my what fun...admitting we have laughed ourselves silly and some brighter than usual fantasies we have shared...like the love swing. who knows tonight I might be a fiery redhead...or have pink pigtails look out....only one holds my heart...only one gets my attention , I truly have no desire to share me with anyone else. My gift to him is my faithfulness to him and my joy is the total surrender of him to me as I to him. I do not hold back He knows when I want him and it is ok....