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Looking for the positive continued...

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2007-10-13 23:45:55.0

I think it is important to separate the deed from the doer. The Scriptures main theme is "people...

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Mariposa123

Posted: Nov 24, 07 1:47pm

Pamela Marie wrote:

I think it is important to separate the deed from the doer. The Scriptures main theme is "people matter."People are hurt...

I agree with and abide by the 3 times principle. If a person, co-worker, friend, or loved one I am in relationship with exhibits the same troubling behavior, and/or continues to make the same poor choices where it adversely affects me, then I feel it is my obligation to myself to take the "tough love" approach to send the message I do not agree/ will not comply, and "love" them from a distance. Making this choice is loving myself as well. Then, I look for the positives in it all, such as loving from a distance, loving and honoring myself, and learning from others mistakes.

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