I'd like to say that no, I wouldnt cheat but the fact is I did many times and many times it was with married women. I've quit drinking now so hopefully I will be faithful in future relationships.

Discreet Yes! Secret No!

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ABSOLUTELY NOT! Too stressful.

I'm too old for that crap, but if I was into that and I admitted it here, it wouldn't be a secret anymore would it ?

No. Never did, never would. I think anyone who would step into the middle of someone else's marriage is too low to kick and too wet to step on. I think they are lower than a cheating spouse because they don't have any excuse at all. At least a spouse who cheats can blame it on her insignificant other - even if no one with over a ten IQ would believe it.

Either you stand for something or you will stand for anything. People who live one part of their lives without values will do the same in other parts of their lives. So, to have someone like that for a friend is risking that the next move will be the one he or she puts on your spouse. I don't need the aggrevation ... or the subsequent legal costs for beating him silly.

Too complicated and what do you do if you accidentally get pregnant?