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- August 8, 2007
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From the original post:
2008-08-05 15:49:18.0
My friend is dating some that is not in the same city as he.
They communicate through email, and sometimes...
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Posted: Aug 7, 08 3:52am
I mean this in a nice way, honest, but there is almost no hope for someone willing to propose to a woman who he has so little knowledge of. For some reason he is willing to overlook the obvious and disregard the facts for a fantasy of what he would like to see happen. Your hands are tied. The best you can do for this friend is to be there when it all comes crashing down.
I have to agree beachgurl...this is a disaster in the making.
Posted: Aug 7, 08 2:26pm
He needs to face reality that she is a player first of all. Then if he still wants to be entertained by her then so be it but just don't get used. Once he understands the reality of the situation then his relationship and behavior with her will change. At this time he will become more appealing to her and will have to decide if he actually wants her or was he just insane with loneliness before.
Posted: Aug 7, 08 9:39pm
I'm also dating someone in another city, and it's tough! I think you have to be looking for a part time relationship for this to work. If you want more, see the "he's just not that into you" goup. :) I know my man isn't that into me, or he would give up some free time for me. Good luck.
Posted: Aug 8, 08 6:15am
Imtranslucent, you have got a good head on your shoulders.
Posted: Aug 8, 08 8:23am
I mean this in a nice way, honest, but there is almost no hope for someone willing to propose to a woman who he has so little knowledge of. For some reason he is willing to overlook the obvious and disregard the facts for a fantasy of what he would like to see happen. Your hands are tied. The best you can do for this friend is to be there when it all comes crashing down.
Yup. Well said.
Posted: Aug 10, 08 6:01am
I don't think is bad communication. He ask direct questions and she change the subject or does not answer the question, mmmm!!! Someone is not being honest. I suggest that they meet face to face.