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I always hear of all these women complaining that their husbands only want sex, but I have the opposite...
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Mockingbird
Mockingbird
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Posted: Feb 9, 08 8:00pm

FINALLY I am finding out I am not the only one with this problem. I am only 33 yrs old, and sex has always been a very b...

After 7 years of the kind of stuff described on this thread, and begging my husband to see a doctor and a therapist for his depression, I was done. I was only 32 with two young boys and it was affecting them too in a bad sense. I was just drained emotionally. I took my kids for a vacation where I could explain things to them in beautiful Sedona and we went home with a separation in place. The divorce was the best decision I ever made and I haven't looked back. p.s. since then I've had the most fantastic lovers and life has been great!

Posted: Mar 13, 08 7:51am

I am new to forums, I stumbled upon your post today and my therapist thought it would be a good way to vent and or talk ...

winejunkie,

Sounds like he is visually turned on by physical attraction(thus is the reason porn sites works for him). Your weight gain is a turn off. He is not attracted to heavy weight women. I can understand. I am not attracted to heavy weight men. It must be an adjustment he has to make in getting attracted to your body type. Some people find it difficult making the adjustment.

Posted: Mar 13, 08 9:40am

I'm not sure I have an answer as to "what you should do", but I have a pretty good bead on what not to do.

Nagging is...

Love the photo.... I will title it: GOAL SETTING

Posted: Mar 14, 08 11:57am

I always hear of all these women complaining that their husbands only want sex, but I have the opposite issue. My husban...

From a man to a women.

You need love. If your man is not willing, you and in your mind know that there are other men that would. Whether you are strong or not to have a relationship with a limp-dick, its just plain and simple- women as well as men need love and love making. It shows affection and it help share youre inner feelings with your partner and maybe because I'm a hot by nature Italian man , but sex should never end. No matter what the circumstances are.

Posted: Mar 14, 08 12:28pm

I always hear of all these women complaining that their husbands only want sex, but I have the opposite issue. My husban...

Have you considered the Empresses' Club?

Posted: Mar 26, 08 10:53am

I am in pretty much the same situation, although I've been married longer than you. Once I told my husband, "If you are...

Amen Amanda,

You said it right, however, you also made me think about you will find someone else, well I'm interested. But not a jerk...

Posted: Aug 11, 08 7:37pm

Maybe he is just not attracted to you, or maybe there is some unresolved conflict. Talk about it honestly.