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thanks rhia - the picture is kinda scary at this point especially not knowing what i'm looking at. please don't ask me if i can distinguish a penis! i'm lucky i can see it's head!!!! lol

The ultrasound picture will look freakish to say the least.

I remember with my last child they got a close up of his face.

I was told it was a great picture for an ultrasound but for the life of me all I could see was the face of a chimpanzee.

Once your been through the whole process a couple times you can see basically whats what and be right but to get the really clear pictures you need to go to the mall and get the specialized ultrasound they sell to the public for about 100.00.

Check with the doctor before thinking about it though.

Some doctors are against it while others see no real harm.

If you can possibly post a picture of your daughters ultrasound I can do my best to tell you what I see, although I'm not an expert I should be able to tell you the basics.

The genitals still wont be distinguishable till five months along though

thanks trippy! what my dil sent to me is like a strip of pictures taken. i can see that there were at least 4 on the strip but you can only see 3 of them and they can't be separated. so i can't post them. i just noticed today that two are from the chest up and the other one is as if the baby is sitting up looking at you. it's weird that one. you can make out the bigger things and its the eyes that freak me out. i don't know if they're so big or if there are shadows around them.

i've never heard of people getting ultrasounds at the mall!!! LOL that's a new one to me! since my dil has a high risk ob at a top hospital, i'm hoping that down the road they are able to take those really detailed shots where you can see their little faces so clearly before the birth canal messes them up! lol

thanks sweetie for offering to help though. ;-D

The new thought of vibration states we bring all of this on ourselves. Im trying to figure out what I have done to p$$$ off the happy people? My son and daughter in law are getting a divorce they have a 18 month old and are putting me in the middle. She went out to "party" left the baby with someone wouldnt tell my son where I was up until 230am in the middle. Went to work and got shitted on and the whole team look to me to keep everything running smoothly. The manager is emotionally checking out because she has not physically done anything to help us. And now half the staff is gone which leaves the rest of us to SUFFER, while the manager sits in her own happy world making what she states is "very good money". Im broke from paying my son's bills, and helping to pay for things for my grandson. The mom calls me that the baby doesnt have any diapers, any wipes (what happened to using wash clothes to wipe their butts??) and no food. So I end up using my last money until payday to be sure my grandson has what he needs while she goes out partying. Im so pi#### at them both! My son expects me to do EVERYTHING and to help him also. While I am single and trying to raise my teenager also. I have to work overtime to make ends meet and work is HELL. I just want to find my happy place but it seems to have eluded me at this time. So now Im thinking what kind of vibrations I have been sending out to get all of this Mess into my circle of life. THANKS for listening!

Yes, Franny. We are listening.

Really makes you want to slap some sense into some of these people and tell them to GROW UP!

Guido

Guido how right you are both are almost 25 yrs old and I wish I could just kick them both in the ASS

Franny, I'm sorry you have so much difficulty going on in your life right now.

I'm at a loss as to what to tell you, but I can always listen.

First and foremost, take care of yourself.

Take some deep breaths, assess the situation, and if need be, keep posting. We will listen.