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Funny how women tend to blame us for their lack of a sex drive. Of course, if we followed your advice, that wouldn't be enough. Why don't you just admit that sex is not a priority in womans life? Can't wait to hear the comments!

OMG can I marry you? THANK YOU for not thinking of us as your achievement. Well said!

I can't totally disagree with you. When I was married I was always tired and I did blame my husband a lot. But please don't make the mistake in thinking that sex is not a priority in women's lives. It just may not be at that time with that man. Since divorcing, sex has become much more of a priority. The relationship dictates the priorities. And I can't say this enough...before kids, sex is great (priority). After kids, not so much. I couldn't ever get the desire back. It did end our marriage (along with many other issues.) Now, it's back and healthier than ever. I'm sorry that you are in that rut. Horrible place to be.

Speaking for myself, most definitely. Sex is most enjoyable to me when I know my wife is too. Sometimes I try a little too hard.

too damn bad u live on the other side of the country!!

I don't know your situation, but before u go the "grass is always greener" route...try changing up the times, ways, etc...You might find she's just ready for a change in routine. Just my opinion...if u love her it's worth trying. And if you've already tried...sorry.

Can't marry me. I don't fancy time in a Texas lockup for bigamy. But we could have a helluva weekend a la the senior prom only older.