No...I'm asking why you ignore red flags until its too late. I also want to say I am not grouping all women in one group. Some I'm sure do pick up on red flags and stop dealing with that person....but many women tend to overlook the red flags and keep going until they get hurt.
No...I'm asking why you ignore red flags until its too late. I also want to say I am not grouping all women in one group. Some I'm sure do pick up on red flags and stop dealing with that person....but many women tend to overlook the red flags and keep going until they get hurt.
BINGO! Guilty. I don't know why, other than the usual reasons...didn't want to give up, hurt the kids, afraid of starting over, afraid of financial difficulties...etc. Not good enough reasons to stay in a bad relationship, but then again, I hate to give up too easily. And really, what's "too late?" If there are red flags, someone's gonna get hurt.
BINGO! Guilty. I don't know why, other than the usual reasons...didn't want to give up, hurt the kids, afraid of starting over, afraid of financial difficulties...etc. Not good enough reasons to stay in a bad relationship, but then again, I hate to give up too easily. And really, what's "too late?" If there are red flags, someone's gonna get hurt.
Woman are spaghetti. They are delicious and saucey and they are all over the plate. (Not a bad thing ladies) Their minds have the ability to go in many different directions at once.
Men are waffles. We compartmentalize things. We get comfortable in our little sweet cubby hole. Every once in awhile we look out into other compartments and when we're done where we are and what we are doing, we then jump into the next waffle hole (task).
Women are spaghetti and men are waffles. We're different. Celebrate it!
Woman are spaghetti. They are delicious and saucey and they are all over the plate. (Not a bad thing ladies) Their minds have the ability to go in many different directions at once.
Men are waffles. We compartmentalize things. We get comfortable in our little sweet cubby hole. Every once in awhile we look out into other compartments and when we're done where we are and what we are doing, we then jump into the next waffle hole (task).
Women are spaghetti and men are waffles. We're different. Celebrate it!
Posted: Oct 7, 08 7:49am
No...I'm asking why you ignore red flags until its too late. I also want to say I am not grouping all women in one group. Some I'm sure do pick up on red flags and stop dealing with that person....but many women tend to overlook the red flags and keep going until they get hurt.
BINGO! Guilty. I don't know why, other than the usual reasons...didn't want to give up, hurt the kids, afraid of starting over, afraid of financial difficulties...etc. Not good enough reasons to stay in a bad relationship, but then again, I hate to give up too easily. And really, what's "too late?" If there are red flags, someone's gonna get hurt.
Posted: Oct 7, 08 7:51am
Woman are spaghetti. They are delicious and saucey and they are all over the plate. (Not a bad thing ladies) Their minds have the ability to go in many different directions at once.
Men are waffles. We compartmentalize things. We get comfortable in our little sweet cubby hole. Every once in awhile we look out into other compartments and when we're done where we are and what we are doing, we then jump into the next waffle hole (task).
Women are spaghetti and men are waffles. We're different. Celebrate it!
What a great analogy!
yes - Celebrate it!
Posted: Oct 7, 08 7:53am
Women are spaghetti and men are waffles. We're different. Celebrate it!
Damn.....now I'm hungry!
Posted: Oct 7, 08 7:54am
What a great analogy!
yes - Celebrate it!
Thanks
Posted: Oct 7, 08 7:54am
Damn.....now I'm hungry!
For??? Should I call Aunt Jemima? We could have a threesome! hahahahahahaha
Posted: Oct 7, 08 7:58am
Colin, you already answered your own question...because they are wired differently.
No...I didn't answer it...The question is why do they ignore the red flags?
Posted: Oct 7, 08 8:01am
No...I didn't answer it...The question is why do they ignore the red flags?
Colin... I think the answer is "loneliness"