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Lists end up blinding us. What I hope to have my eyes opened to is another heart. Whether its lists or my own heart, I don't want either to get in the way of another heart out there looking for one like mine. It's about letting go of self.

If you have a long list of traits you would like to have in a man or woman, it's kind of hard to really find the one you are hoping to be with. Yeah, you have a point here, maybe, if you let go of yourself and not think too much of what you want in a man/woman, and maybe, ask yourself instead, "what I want in a relationship" , maybe, just maybe, this would probably result to a more realistic way of being able to find or meet that person.

When I read this I was thinking this is exactly like me (maybe even the ass part). I have been told I'm a nice guy (some have even said TOO nice, whatever that means). The "chemistry" needs to be there as well but many women I've met are simply looking at the wallet and nothing more, the car I happen to own acts as a magnet of sorts but when discovered that this nice guy isn't "loaded".....POOF, gone like the wind.