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I've asked him in an email so i'm waiting for the answer now.

My experiance has been, that romances tend to flame on hot and bright then they calm down. Its when that fire of lust dies down a little that we can sit back, get into a normal routine and truely look at the other person. The rose colored glasses slip off a little. That is when we decide if the love is truley there, when you can look at who they really are and still like what you see....

Be well,

Pat

So he most likely doesn't like what he sees in me now? I can tell you from my end and it seemed from his end the lust hasn't died down at all. We just live 5 hours apart so that makes things harder - we both have kids still living with us and responsibilities but i appreciate this insight and it might be what's going on - i hope i know soon so i can deal with it gracefully lol

Dont jump to conclusions lady. It may well be hes just settling in and getting comfertable. Its not always fireworks and 4th of July. We men can settle in really fast and get comfertable in a routine. If it feels like hes taking you for granted, than you let him know but it could be MANY things.

Talk to him and find out. Dont jump to conclusions unfounded. TALK TO HIM..

Be well,

Pat

o.k. thanks Pat

When he stops calling all together or not returning emails... things happen and lulls in phone calls or emails happen... but men just don't think about things the same way women do.. but if a guy wants you he will get in touch with you... he will let you know. But if you are always calling him why would he want to call you.. cause he just talked to you !

Hi Susie, i don't call him to bug him - i try and give him his space if i think he needs it - i do email him to touch base and hopefully i'm not coming off as stalkish.