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From the original post:
2008-10-11 09:36:51.0
So that they can attract a mate. But many select the wrong male. Because they select these men for the...
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Posted: Oct 11, 08 1:08pm
When I was 20 I liked 20 year old girls,
When I was 30 I liked 30 year old women,
When I was 40 I liked 40 year old women.
Im 50 now so I like the 50 year old ladies.
Times change and people grow up recall. Some of us accept the changes and even enjoy them. some things do get better with age..imo
I looked pretty damn good when I was 20 too. Once again whats your point?
Be well
Pat
Posted: Oct 11, 08 1:53pm
You need to change your handle from Recall to Redundant. jeezz....
Posted: Oct 11, 08 3:00pm
So that they can attract a mate. But many select the wrong male. Because they select these men for the wrong reasons. Then when they are over 40. Many continue to seek a similar male but with a few more requirements. Thus making the same mistakes they did when they were young.They increase their must have list when they should keep it very short. There is really no reason for a attractive woman to go on the internet to find a man. Women are a walking advertisement everywhere they go. There are men who are not shy. Who will hit on them. The problem with many women is they overprice themselves and become too demanding later in their lives. They should face facts. That when you are seeking a fish you must understand the wants of the fish and stop thinking of the wants of a fisherlady. If you truly want a man? Stop being so demanding later in life. Down to earth women will usually fare better than all the materialistic ones that you find on internet dating sites. They go from one site to another. Very few women win at the materialistic game. Stop buying Sex and The City. It doesn't and won't work for most of you. Character and attraction is always the way to go. See men not as types but as special. One of a kind. There remain a lot of good men available seeking women but the women reject these men. They do it out of fear. They do it by overpricing them. They need to look in the mirror and at the calender.
Recall - I have read many of your posts and have remained silent, but I must have my jab now. You strike me as a very resentful, egotistical, judgmental, self-absorbed human being.
Now... I am a kind, bubbly, positive kind of gal, so it took reading MANY of your posts before I actually tapped out a response to one! Not sure it was worth my time.
Posted: Oct 11, 08 3:34pm
Ummm maybe because we haven't fully developed an independent brain yet and guys like you might look attractive?
Posted: Oct 11, 08 3:54pm
I totally agree with Lassmn66. I think that you need to take a closer look at yourself and see exactly what you have to offer. I have seen so many of your postings and they reflect a very bitter and misogynistic attitude. Let's just go over some facts:
1. Your age-In your profile it states you are 56. I don't know whether this is your real age or not. However, "actors" are known to shave a few years off their real age. In your youtube videos you often play the part of the "old man". Your real age, of course, is your own business. However, you often allude to the fact that women in their forties are not that attractive or that they would be lucky to have you. A forty year old woman is still almost twenty years younger than you.
2. Your sensitivity-Your arrogance (which I suspect stems from your own feelings of inadequacy) is absolutely astounding and is a turnoff to any woman. You actually had a posting where you stated that you were a great catch and could not understand why 40+ women wouldn't be dying to go out with you.
3. Your intelligence-I think that your postings speak volumes about this area. You don't have anything interesting to say and you just merely complain about the fact that women are not swooning all over you. The other thing that you mention all of the time is the fact that you are an "actor". I don't think that is going to actually impress anyone over the age of 18.
4. Your career-The fact that you are trying to break into acting at your age probably has a lot to do with the fact you are so obsessed with age. At twenty or thirty years old, a wannabe actor is interesting and exciting. However, at almost 60 years old, he is not so interesting or exciting.
5. Your level of attractiveness-Perceptions of attractiveness are extremely subjective. However, based on your pictures, I would caution you to be kinder in your evaluations of how other people look.
I think these are the reasons why "you" cannot find a woman (of any age)despite the fact that you go to so many singles events and are desperate to find a woman. Think about your age, sensitivity, intelligence, career, and attractiveness when you ask yourself about your lack of success with women. What do you have to offer?
Posted: Oct 11, 08 4:06pm
I don't know recall, your drawing a lot of negative response from so many Ladies and Men you just might, just might want to take a look at the constant in your dating experience.
Personally, as a guy I find it very ..tiring in constant whining about how the woman you meet are all materialistic and overpriced. It's really getting old and very Offensive. Not only to the many Ladies we have here but to some of us guys as well. So I ask you, practice some sort of mature restraint. Thank you.
Posted: Oct 11, 08 4:15pm
I totally agree with Lassmn66. I think that you need to take a closer look at yourself and see exactly what you have to offer. I have seen so many of your postings and they reflect a very bitter and misogynistic attitude. Let's just go over some facts:
1. Your age-In your profile it states you are 56. I don't know whether this is your real age or not. However, "actors" are known to shave a few years off their real age. In your youtube videos you often play the part of the "old man". Your real age, of course, is your own business. However, you often allude to the fact that women in their forties are not that attractive or that they would be lucky to have you. A forty year old woman is still almost twenty years younger than you.
2. Your sensitivity-Your arrogance (which I suspect stems from your own feelings of inadequacy) is absolutely astounding and is a turnoff to any woman. You actually had a posting where you stated that you were a great catch and could not understand why 40+ women wouldn't be dying to go out with you.
3. Your intelligence-I think that your postings speak volumes about this area. You don't have anything interesting to say and you just merely complain about the fact that women are not swooning all over you. The other thing that you mention all of the time is the fact that you are an "actor". I don't think that is going to actually impress anyone over the age of 18.
4. Your career-The fact that you are trying to break into acting at your age probably has a lot to do with the fact you are so obsessed with age. At twenty or thirty years old, a wannabe actor is interesting and exciting. However, at almost 60 years old, he is not so interesting or exciting.
5. Your level of attractiveness-Perceptions of attractiveness are extremely subjective. However, based on your pictures, I would caution you to be kinder in your evaluations of how other people look.
I think these are the reasons why "you" cannot find a woman (of any age)despite the fact that you go to so many singles events and are desperate to find a woman. Think about your age, sensitivity, intelligence, career, and attractiveness when you ask yourself about your lack of success with women. What do you have to offer?
Oh Andrea... you did a much better job than I! God Bless You!
And to Mikey880 - two thumbs up (and a peck on the cheek)