"Toys"

JohnnyWheels

Posted: Apr 12, 08 10:30pm

Something that's been bugging me for a few days, and I checked The Google to see if I was the only one who feels this way and found I'm not. Anyhow, why is it, if a woman has vibrators and dildos, she's considered to be exploring her sexuality, or broadening her horizons, or spicing up her life, but if a man has some Plastic Pocket Pals, he's considered a perv, sicko, or worse, a "Loser" ?

After all, I've never heard anybody putting a woman down for dating the coppertop twins, Dura and Cell, but we've all heard some guy get put down being told to "save your breath for your date".

Or is this just a "Hoosier Thang"?

41 Comments // 25 Members

Posted: Apr 13, 08 1:44am

Something that's been bugging me for a few days, and I checked The Google to see if I was the only one who feels this wa...

That's an interesting question that I never considered. I think there is a double standard when it comes to viewing different gender sexuality. I can't help but feel that it's like the way we feel about watching a person of the opposite gender masturbate. I think a lot of men enjoy watching women...but know of few women who delight in watching men do the same.

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AnitaP
AnitaP
Founding Member

Posted: Apr 13, 08 2:21am

Something that's been bugging me for a few days, and I checked The Google to see if I was the only one who feels this wa...

Who is calling a man a perv, sicko...could it be a woman? So then if it is, she's never going to put another woman down for using toys.

I noticed that one of your tags is blow up doll.....women would only use them for the carpool lane.................YOU Perv!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hahahahahaha

Posted: Apr 13, 08 2:50am

That's an interesting question that I never considered. I think there is a double standard when it comes to viewing dif...

Very astute obsevation, Prunella. And very interesting question, Johnny.

Here's my foggiy take on this early in the morning. I think there's a real difference between the way girls and boys view any kind of masturbation, with or w/o toys, erotica, etc.

Girls want us guys in them, penetrating one or the other of their open places. It makes them feel desired, beautiful, fulfilled, attractive--all that stuff.

They view the man's self pleasure as they would their man playing with another woman.

Boys, on the other hand, are aroused and fulfilled when their woman gets off for them . The girl reaches climax, and then invites her man into her arms for more. At least that's my observation.

What do you guys think?

Posted: Apr 13, 08 3:32am

Who is calling a man a perv, sicko...could it be a woman? So then if it is, she's never going to put another woman down...

Using a feather is kinky......

using the whole chicken is perverted.

Posted: Apr 13, 08 4:25am

Something that's been bugging me for a few days, and I checked The Google to see if I was the only one who feels this wa...

It is the old double standard and it's not fair.

I think people on a whole are changing their views but it's slow to come.

I believe we will see a much broader view on subjects like this with the next generation, as we have with past generations having a more open view of sexuality.

AnitaP
AnitaP
Founding Member

Posted: Apr 13, 08 4:51pm

Who is calling a man a perv, sicko...could it be a woman? So then if it is, she's never going to put another woman down...

DaddiOooooooooooooh you made me CLUCK!!!

Posted: Apr 13, 08 5:06pm

Who is calling a man a perv, sicko...could it be a woman? So then if it is, she's never going to put another woman down...

Anita clucked?

I wonder what that looks like.