has my boyfriend lost interest in me?

hmmmm... First thoughts: I dont think you should have to beg. It sounds like you have unmet needs. I'ld suggest you be clear with him about the situation. If he cant work with you to meet your needs i'm sure you can find someone who will. Who knows, he might suddenly "perk up" if he realizes there is competition for the privileges. *winks*

In fact, my second thought is - forget the talk - give him something to chase. No matter how intelligent and evolved he is, there is still a reptilian brain at the core. *grins*

The first thought is a rational one. The second thought is instinctual. There are many other way to handle the situation. Explore the possibilities, and you will find what is right for you.

Best Wishes to you both!! :)

Asking is not the same as begging. Let him know you're happy to do him if and when he does what you would like. See what he has to say.

Why should you beg to have sex with him? He is not Donald Trump or Bill gate.... etc. He should be happy your giving it up to him. Listen, the only way to solve this is by talking to him and letting know how do you feel about this problem. I mean if he loves you, he has to satisfy you too and make you happy. If can't be all about him. (What a weirdo) :)?!

let me know if you figure it out,because i'm in the same boat with my hubby,he wants oral for himself and quickie sex but does not want to give oral to me or to make slow love with me.

The easy answer is to not give him anything he won't give you... Hell, if he won't reciprocate, then to hell with him, trade up!

come on girl, lets be honest... you don't feel sht from sex (excuse the language) It's all in the fingers, and if he's not doing that for you then don't do it for him. I would suggest to act like you could care less about sex, because really... its not that great for a woman, unless... you know.... but he can do that for you and u can still not actually have sex; when he does start doing things for you it means he's getting more desperate. But what ever you do try not to do anything for him, until after you get what you want. Just give him a taste of his own medicine, because honestly, he sounds like an ass. Let me know how it all goes down.

purrr... please translate what you've said above... you aren't saying she/us/women in general don't feel 'anything' from sex?

Gosh I hope not... I wouldn't say it's ALL about the fingers...

But I agree with the wait and get what you want.

My take? Which means take it or leave it. ;^)

He doesn't want penetration because he's gay or not into getting truly intimate (and all that means and requires on all levels) with you. He's no longer your boyfriend, he's an acquaintance with favours... but not necessarily the ones you want. Not a win-win situation, which is what f-buddys are.