The Truth Hurts

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Posted: May 17, 08 4:49am

When was the last time you were hit upside the head with the truth and your ego took a downward spiral as you accepted the reality of what you heard?

I will give you my example from this week in the hopes you will add yours. I was as proud as a peacock as I used my DH's Buckeye card to get a senior discount at the grocery store to save $1.22 (mine becomes a reality in 3 months for 60 and older).

I was almost afraid I was busted when the cashier said, "You sure don't look 60." Fearing she would flip the card over and see it was not mine and deny me the 5% discount to my embarrassment and dismay, I quickly said, "Oh, thank you but the discount is for those 60 and over and I am."

I suppose it was pride as I relayed this conversation later in the day to my DH. He merely replied. "I have no idea why she said that. You certainly look 60."

Know what? As I looked in the mirror the following days and could see all the new deep furrows and wrinkles, totally objective, I remembered the old amusement park games where young whippersnappers guessed your age within 3 years and if they were wrong, you won a prize. Ever play that? Well, I never won a prize and way back then I always wanted to look older and more mature when I plunked down my $.50.

I do look my age, and obviously actions and body language makes this an almost unbeatable game. So I concluded the cashier in question was making small talk, but, oh my, the truth is now stinging me days later.

So honestly, what is a recent truth that altered your mindset and was a wake-up/reality check?

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Britscot
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Posted: May 17, 08 4:58am

When was the last time you were hit upside the head with the truth and your ego took a downward spiral as you accepted t...

The truth finally hit me a few weeks ago on the London Underground on a crowded carriage, when a pretty young lass (in her twenties according to my experienced eye), stood up and offered me her seat.

Of course I declined, but her simple and generous offer really hit home!

Posted: May 17, 08 5:09am

The truth finally hit me a few weeks ago on the London Underground on a crowded carriage, when a pretty young lass (in h...

Oh my! Women are quite used to this gesture especially when they were preggie. It was always a gentlemanly gesture for me, (haven't ridden public transit for 15 years) when it was offered otherewise. However, I recall numerous times of offering my seat to the elderly and not receiving a refusal.

Brit, I honestly, in your position, would be devastated that this happened and would just hope she was dizzy. However, the truth was spoken and you have arrived. We call it in the USA, grey power.

You must think of it as a twist and turn entry into a new reckoning of the golden years. To comfort you, if I may, the funniest geezer experience my DH had, was in his 50's when an older, much older employee of McDonald's restaurant gave him the senior discount on a cup of coffee. It shocked us, but in reality, it was his premature salt and pepper hair, that is in truth how people view and treat others at visual face value.

Posted: May 17, 08 6:17am

When was the last time you were hit upside the head with the truth and your ego took a downward spiral as you accepted t...

When I get out of the shower and see my mom's leg as I dry myself off . . .

Posted: May 17, 08 6:21am

The truth finally hit me a few weeks ago on the London Underground on a crowded carriage, when a pretty young lass (in h...

i am thinking of joining the gray panther movement :-)

Britscot
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Posted: May 17, 08 6:23am

The truth finally hit me a few weeks ago on the London Underground on a crowded carriage, when a pretty young lass (in h...

Roxley,

I always pictured you in my mind as a grey cougar.

Posted: May 17, 08 7:07am

When was the last time you were hit upside the head with the truth and your ego took a downward spiral as you accepted t...

Brit ...

Yah needs to go to the market square and get a baseball cap that says "Old Fart" ..LOL LOL

I knew I was getting older when my mom says to me "your looking more and more like your father"..!!

Ma is 90 ..!

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Posted: May 17, 08 7:11am

Brit ...

Yah needs to go to the market square and get a baseball cap that says "Old Fart" ..LOL LOL

I knew I was g...

Being in a business suit and wearing a baseball cap announcing I'm an old fart is fodder for a rather interesting experience.