Posted: May 17, 08
4:49am
When was the last time you were hit upside the head with the truth and your ego took a downward spiral as you accepted the reality of what you heard?
I will give you my example from this week in the hopes you will add yours. I was as proud as a peacock as I used my DH's Buckeye card to get a senior discount at the grocery store to save $1.22 (mine becomes a reality in 3 months for 60 and older).
I was almost afraid I was busted when the cashier said, "You sure don't look 60." Fearing she would flip the card over and see it was not mine and deny me the 5% discount to my embarrassment and dismay, I quickly said, "Oh, thank you but the discount is for those 60 and over and I am."
I suppose it was pride as I relayed this conversation later in the day to my DH. He merely replied. "I have no idea why she said that. You certainly look 60."
Know what? As I looked in the mirror the following days and could see all the new deep furrows and wrinkles, totally objective, I remembered the old amusement park games where young whippersnappers guessed your age within 3 years and if they were wrong, you won a prize. Ever play that? Well, I never won a prize and way back then I always wanted to look older and more mature when I plunked down my $.50.
I do look my age, and obviously actions and body language makes this an almost unbeatable game. So I concluded the cashier in question was making small talk, but, oh my, the truth is now stinging me days later.
So honestly, what is a recent truth that altered your mindset and was a wake-up/reality check?