Avoiding Women who are after my Money

I would like to add that I don't bring up money but rather that in these instances the women I've been out with ask questions that get to that sort of conversation. I can understand trying to verify a man's got a job and such, but I see the eagerness build in their eyes when they find out about my holdings. In reflection, I suppose women might feel this way when men seem more interested in their looks than their minds. Of course, men sometimes will have more interest in women for financial reasons too, but I am finding more often it's my fortune NOT my looks women go for. Not that I'm a troll, but I'm no Brad Pitt lookalike.

I hope I didn't offend anyone, but I do think more often than not women are exploited for looks and men for money. Sad but true. I don't want to be one of those old sad-looking guys with a young golddigger hanging out of my wallet any more than a woman wants a leering guy staring at her breasts when she's discussing Freire. I just want a nice sexy warm woman close to my own age who thinks I'm a prize with or without a financial portfolio, one who isn't looking for a 401K with legs. After my date last night I'm despairing of finding one. The one date I have had with a woman who wasn't turned on by my money was terrific, but then she gave me the age-old "getting back with the ex" line.

Yes, it is true that there are many women (and men!) who are looking for someone to pave their way to an easy retirement. I have to admit, though I don't consider myself a gold-digger, someone who is financial secure is very appealing to me, but there are more important things to consider than someone's bank account.

There are many women out there who are financially secure in their own right. Just keep looking and don't give up hope yet! I hope that chivalry and romance are not dead, because I am still looking for it!

I'm sure that with all the money and assets that you have........you can buy the woman of your dreams.

If only it were that easy. Sadly, Ingrid Bergman is dead and Scarlett Johannsen is stretched beyond usability. But thank you for your helpful idea.

It's not that I would expect a woman to go for me if I were a penniless drug addict, but what I have found disarming are the women who "perk up" ONLY after discovering I have means. One woman pretty much ignored me until she saw my name on a donation plaque and then she seemed to break into a plague of 1,000,000 locusts shadowing my every move. I'm afraid that loneliness is going to push me into accepting that kind of attention and it frightens me.

I got confused on what you're looking for. You mentioned, "I just want a nice sexy warm woman close to my own age who thinks I'm a prize with or without a financial portfolio". Are you thinking long term?

I imagine that if you find a woman who's equally or more financially successful, then you won't have to ever wonder what the attraction is.

Being that we're all products of our experiences, I'm sure that man or woman who'd been in a relationship with a leach would be looking for someone more successful. Likewise, anybody who's been with someone successful that was worried about the other potentially being a "gold-digger", may be in the market for someone nice, simple, and not so full of their "stuff".

All the best.