I love my sister but...

Posted: Nov 16, 07 10:22am

My sister and I are like two peas in a pod. We have/had a good relationship. If I heard good juicy gossip, I'd call my sister. If I met a cute guy, I'd call my sister. Even if I thought the guy was butt ugly..I'd still call my sister and she did the same thing with me all the time! Yes we have disagreements at times but that never altered our relationship. Any parent we be proud to see their children get along so well (there are 9 of us total). Recently, my sister and younger brother called me to go out to a party with them. I told them no I had a bad headache and just wanted to sleep. After about 5 phone calls begging me to go out, they finally got the message. No big deal right?? .When I did get up, I felt alot better and notice that it wasn't too too late to go to the after hour spot we usually go to hang out until 8am. (trust me, I can't do that to often). Both of them were there dancing and having a good time. I bought a guinness and chilled out to the tunes. My sister was a little tipsy and was dancing with a guy that I've never seen before. The dancing got a aggressive... more sexual...not like my sister would dance like if she didn't know the guy. But she had a smile on her face and seem to enjoy herself so I just let it go and just kept an eye on her. After some time went by I notice the guy said something to her and grabbed her hand and pulled her upstairs leading to outside. I told my brother I'll be back and quickly telling him what I saw. (You have to understand that we all are very protective of each other and God bless whomever ever tried to cross any of us!) I made it outside and called my sister's name. She turned around and said I'm good I just need some air. Well me being me, that wasn't good enough. So I ask the guy who he was. He told me his explicit tag name and then his conversation quickly turned from him going to do/go whatever/wherever with my sister to "what are you doing later". He acted as if it was me that he was grinding on in the party and we had come outside to make "other" arrangments. I looked at my sister as to say "what the hell is this sh*t". She laughed and said "Sis, come on forget him". We walked away from the guy and talked for awhile. She decided to go breakfast with another mutual friend of ours and I went back in the party. By the time little brother and I left (which was a least an hour and a half later) I noticed my cell phone vibrating, which meant I had a message. I ignored it but when I reached home I did retrieve the messages. The one that stood out he most was the one from my sister. It was kind of fuzzy in the beginning but the last part said "Who are you talking about, your sister?" She replied "yeah I hate her". To my knowledge, nothing had happened that night. We did the same thing we normally do, with the exception of my headache. I know it has to something underlying the whole situation but what? And for some reason I knew that she would deny saying it so when it came up to talk, She did deny it and said that if she did say something like that then she didn't mean for it to come out like that. She might have meant she hate something I did. I heard the demeanor and the tone in her voice. There is no mistaking that!

Any thoughts?