SECRET LOVERS- YEA OR NAH???

BANDY2929

Posted: Dec 5, 07 8:55pm

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would "be a secret?"

( ) Sure, why not?

( ) Depends on the person.

( ) Absolutely NOT.

14 Comments // 14 Members
AnitaP
AnitaP
Founding Member

Posted: Dec 5, 07 9:11pm

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would "be a secret?"

( ) ...

Absolutely NOT

I'm just a kitty, the other might be a BIG BITCH. No way!

Nope I create my destiny and at this age it is too difficult to create a mess that I'll end up having to clean up.

Posted: Dec 5, 07 9:31pm

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would "be a secret?"

( ) ...

Um...Uh...Well...Um..No...

No death wish here for starters...

Et-cetera!

Regards,

D

Posted: Dec 5, 07 9:40pm

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would "be a secret?"

( ) ...

Absolutely not! I have more respect for myself than that.

Why go looking for problems and heartache!

Posted: Dec 5, 07 10:04pm

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would "be a secret?"

( ) ...

Yeah I'll help someone cheat . I'll be shocked when they do it to me . What good is trust for anyway ? I didn't promise to be faithful so I wouldn't be cheating. Right ?

Forgive my cynicism but "Justifying Our Infidelity " could be TBD's largest group.

No thanks .

Posted: Dec 5, 07 11:15pm

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would "be a secret?"

( ) ...

Absolutely Not,

When I was young I went out with a married man. Of course he lied to me and said his wife had left him. I knew both of them. She was only on vacation visiting family back home. She found out about us and kicked my butt. Which I still feel I deserved. I could have easily kicked her butt but I never hit back because in my heart I knew I was wrong. I had a pretty good black eye for a week and when anyone asked me what happened I told the truth.

I later went to see her and told her all she had to do was ask me and I would have told her the truth. I also told her how he lied to me and that I am not the real problem, She can keep going after every women he sleeps with or she can kick his butt and stop him from doing it, otherwise she is just going to keep beating women up and he is just going to keep sleeping around. It's like a apple you can keep going around it or you can get to the core of the problem. And remember if he/she is cheating with you and you get together later you can bet your bottom dollar they will do the same thing to you. Remember what goes around, comes around.

And what does this say about you as a person and what morals you have set for yourself. If you are a women I would call you a slut, If you are a guy I would call you a Asshole. Think before you leap,

There may be no bottom!

Sorry if this hurts your feelings but I can't stress enought how bad this move would be.

Golden Eagle Women

Posted: Dec 5, 07 11:53pm

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would "be a secret?"

( ) ...

Nope!

Why would I want someone like that in my life? He'd just turn around and do the same thing to me one day.

My ex ended up marrying the last woman he was running around with while we were married. She didn't know he was married at first (he was a darn good liar I'll give him that) and only found out when she was helping him move after we split up and found a bunch of checkbooks from our joint checking account. He had a bit of a problem answering that 'who the heck is Vicky?' question I'm sure but seems to have done well with it because she married him anyway. Imagine her surprise when he started doing the same thing to her within 2 years. Go figure.

Since integrity is pretty high on my list of desirable qualities in a partner I'm afraid I'd have to disqualify that one.

Posted: Mar 27, 08 4:32pm

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would "be a secret?"

( ) ...

Absolutely NOT

There are some lines in life that once crossed, you can't come back.