Posted: Dec 16, 07
5:45am
Like many mid-lifers, I come from a family that viewed the gateway to success as a liberal education (very likely followed by an advanced degree). My parents' devotion to higher learning seemed to reflect the fact that their own working-class forebears had little opportunity for book learning. Even at the height of my teenage rebellion, it never crossed my mind not to go to the best college that would accept me--never mind Bob Dylan's line about "the old folks' home in the college." You did the flower child, backpack thing, then you got serious and got a degree. That was one unwritten rule that didn't get rewritten at the barricades. Just the opposite, in fact: the campus was the forum for rebellion.
Maybe it's just my family and my circle of friends, but I sense that things are changing. Last night at a family gathering of three generations, I noticed something about the young adults for the first time. Many of these thoughtful, articulate young people have limited use for book learning. We have a baker, an aspiring race car driver and an aesthetics student who wants to own a day spa. Looking around at my friends' kids, I see a house painter and a plumber. All of these people seem happy with the choices they've made, and all are markedly less educated than their parents (quite a few of whom have advanced degrees). Some of the parents have struggled with what they initially perceived as a rejection of their values, although everyone seems pretty comfortable now (and rightly so).
Here's what I'm wondering: are we seeing the emergence of a trend, or at least a trendlet: kids with markedly less education than their parents? And if so, what's driving it? Are today's young adults disillusioned by what they've glimpsed of professional life from the margins? Do they have a more sharply honed sense of what really matters in life, and of their own right to seek it?
The baby boomers were supposed to be the rebels. But sometimes I think we were more compliant than we knew, and that the real rebels are our children and grandchildren.
What do the rest of you think?