Posted: Dec 22, 07
8:04pm
I'm always interested in what other people want to accomplish during the new year - or what they would like to think they can accomplish.
I make resolutions every year - and it seems they are the same one.
But since I'm now OVER half a century old (51 to be exact), I figure I should come up with some new ones - I'm not going to lose weight (been there/done that), I'm not going to go by a budget (been there/still broke), Now I figure it's more important to live my life, rather than try to control it. What brought this soul-searching on? I saw a preview for a movie with Jack Nicholson - The Bucket List. It's stuff you want to do before you 'kick the bucket".
So I will start -- my now ten that I want to accomplish before I KICK THE BUCKET!!
1. Go to Europe - I want to see London, Paris, Athens, Rome and Ireand.
2. I want to be happy - I see people who have this 'happiness' around them. I want that - I don't want to have fleeting moments of it, I want it all the time. I don't want to think about the son who died (whose birthday is today), I don't want to think about the things I missed out on.
3. I want to drive across the United States from one coast to the other and then from north to south. I want to be sure I have seen every state that we have. I have particulars in each state that interest me - so I plan on making a list and seeing if I can do them all.
4. I want to finish school - I feel like I've been in college on/off for most of my adult life. Things kept getting in the way - marriage, kids, work, me. But now I would like to actually finish one degree. I'm working on Psychology and only have about 10 classes left - wishe me luck.
5. I would like to learn to cook really cool food - like creme brule, russian food, french food, greek food, .... ok, all kinds of food. Right now our evening meals consist of spaghetti, tacos, sloppy joes, roast, meat loaf, chicken an pork chops - every week - ssdd. i want to learn to cook something that takes more than opening a can and putting it in the microwave.
6. I want to learn about different spirtual directions I could take - is Christianity the way to go, what about Buddism, what about Kabalah, what about Scientology (Tom and John can't be all wrong). what other spiritual directions are there (notice I didn't say religions, I said spiritual).
7. I want to find an exercise program that I can stick with because I enjoy it. My friend found running and loves it, not for me. I thought about Yoga (anybody???), what about walking groups (anybody???), maybe I should be the 'old lady' body builder???
8. I want to be totally, completely, madly in love again. Yes I'm married and I still 'love' my husband - very much. But after 24 years, it 's more comfortable than passionate. How do you get the passion back???
9. I want to see my kids happy - I want them married with kids of their own and know that they are happy with their choices.
10. I want to be in a position to die knowing I've accomplished all I could in this life... that I didn't miss anything or have any regrets.
An added one - I want to skydive (because Jack did it in the movie and it looked like fun).