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Posted: Feb 6, 08 12:29pm Most of you know my story. My now ex-wife pulled out of our 24 year marriage last year. I have been adjusting to singl...  Uncle Spencer, the only thing that would make me happier about your post is if you met her on TBD :) Congratulations! One piece of wisdom that was given to me as I re-entered the dating world after my divorce: don't be overwhelmed by "that first drink of water when you've been in the desert." Posted: Feb 6, 08 12:31pmMost of you know my story. My now ex-wife pulled out of our 24 year marriage last year. I have been adjusting to singl... Hooray for you! Take it slow but enjoy the journey. Life is all about the trip--not the end result. Posted: Feb 6, 08 1:01pmHooray for you! Take it slow but enjoy the journey. Life is all about the trip--not the end result.... Uncle Spencer, I am so happy you are moving on and had such a positive experience on your first outing. Keep us informed! A humorous quote I remember from Gary Shandling was, I'm dating a woman now who, evidently, is unaware of it. Posted: Feb 6, 08 1:22pmMost of you know my story. My now ex-wife pulled out of our 24 year marriage last year. I have been adjusting to singl... Uncle Spencer, congratulations!! I am so happy for you. I must suggest, however, that you follow RobinWolander's advice. Don't get too "head over heels" just yet. Give it a little time. Really get to know her, then her true colors will either shine very bright, or with little glimmer. If it doesn't work, DON'T GO BACK TO THAT PORCH!!. Get out. Meet new people and find another date. There are some wonderful women out herE, such as myself!! LOL Either way, keep a positive attidue and I wish you all the best!! Posted: Feb 6, 08 1:59pmMost of you know my story. My now ex-wife pulled out of our 24 year marriage last year. I have been adjusting to singl... Thanks for all the positive comments. I am trying to take it slow, but it is not that easy sometimes. I guess I feel like it will either work out or it won't, but I'm going to enjoy it now and hope for the best. If it doesn't, I'll just have to move on. Robin, there were several TDB women that would have been great to date, but they all lived a long way from me and it just didn't make sense logistically or financially to try and do that. Long distance relationships are very difficult and it seemed like that was a strike against any possible relationship developing. But I'll be the first to say there are a lot of bright, fun and attractive women on this site that I wished lived close by. Posted: Feb 6, 08 2:05pmThanks for all the positive comments. I am trying to take it slow, but it is not that easy sometimes. I guess I feel l... Uncle Spencer: Post the area you live on on your profile. You might find a few women willing to travel to your area!! LOL Posted: Feb 6, 08 3:54pmMost of you know my story. My now ex-wife pulled out of our 24 year marriage last year. I have been adjusting to singl... Dear Spencer: Good for you! Enjoy yourself, have some fun, don't get too serious too soon. Then call me ;> Yes, you do need to get flirted with, so I am just "opening the floodgates" as such. Hugs and Best Wishes for the Future, Jaki. | ADVERTISEMENT  |
