Posted: Aug 9, 08 7:25pm

My ex-spouse just passed away 2 weeks ago. We were married for 20 years and divorced in 2005. I loved him, but I couldn't continue to live with him. The only contact we've had in the last three years is when he called me once or twice a year.

I am grieving his death and I am experiencing guilt for the bad times the last 3 years or so of our marriage.