Posted: Oct 27, 08 8:50am
Hi , I need your help ..... I have lost someone i care about to suicide a year ago . I`m having difficulty dealing w/ how we deal w/ it as a whole . I cannot discuss w/ most of my friends . They think he died of cancer ...which would of happened if he had not taken his life . Most people are taught that if you take your life you go to limbo or worse Hell . Here is where i have a problem .....I feel the Lord is all forgiving and people who take their life are not in their right mind to do it . I know if you have faith you turn to God and ask for his help to guide you . Can you help me find peace w/ this issue ....??
Background on this person ...8yrs battling cancer two different kinds ...and if you have anyone that has gone through the cancer treatments ....it is bad , You lose all independence and any pride you have is hard to keep w/ all the tests . I watch him wither to half the person he was ...and it breaks my heart thinking about it .
I will take no offense to anything said ....i am a good listener and love to understand the why . If you can help me .....TY ...BIG HUG ...J :)









