Sorry for the big picture of me....I'm just really technologically challenged...didn't do that on purpose..

Nice picture...Welcome to TBD..

If you want to meet men over 50, I can't think of a better place than right here on TBD. You can search TBD members by gender and location. Go to Members. Right up top there's a box where you can choose Males Near Me.

On dating sites, people very often lie about who they are and what they want and believe. It's different on TBD. Here you can read all the posts of anyone you're interested in and get a real sense of who they are, how they think, often their sense of humor, and if you might feel attracted to them. Then you can pitch them on being TBD Friends, and private message them.

Good luck.

The bar of any golf course. Ya might want to wear something athletic.

The VFW (et all).

Cafe's and diners that have senior menus - go there at 5.

Read the obituaries and go to viewings at funeral homes - wear darks.

you can't find them because there shaking up with the 20-30 year olds.just kidding.

hey Hip .....the VFW's not a bad idea.....my father and son are both veterans.....my son is a fighter pilot (F15e) and just got back from a tour in Afghanstian....he's very patriotic, brave, and unpretentious....doesn't like when mom brags about him. It would be nice to meet someone my age with those qualities.

Generally, the best place to find us is doing whatever it is you would enjoy doing with us. But I grant you it's a challenge-- at 51 I've put most of my energy into doing the things I enjoy doing, and not into The Search.