Posted: May 18, 08 12:14pm
OK guys, this question is for you. (Or gals, if you relate).
In short, I am not one of those women with a finely tuned ability to read and understand men. So what signs or signals are you giving women if you are not directly and clearly letting them know you are interested in them?
As I think, in retrospect, about the things that have happened to me I wonder if I missed out on something(s) that (he) may have thought was an obvious sign of (his) interest. For example, if someone walks me to my car after work (daylight/safety not an issue) when his car is parked right there at the door, but after we get down the street and across the road to my car he says or does nothing. (Did he want to but not have the courage, I wonder still.) I think at the time I was flattered, curious about the gesture, but thought it strange at the same time not knowing what it really meant and trying not to read anything more into it. I don't want to look like a fool for misreading something. Similar stuff has happened and I get frustrated not knowing if it is something or nothing.
I catch men looking, but not talking. Is this just part of the "evolutionary-wecan'thelpit-partofournature-instinctual" well tuned excuse for your behavior? When does what you do actually mean something?
Thanks for your thoughts.
