hi, i was going thru that too, i just jumped on line

it helps you to learn how to talk to guys again

and its a good ego boost . mate1 is free.

you need to start doing things for yourself

there wasnt anything wrong with you, its just a new chapter in your life

so start it, and love yourself you deserve the best

good luck

HI, to you as well. I have got to learn how ro love with my heart, not my head. I was engaged to be Married on May 9, we were getting married the next day, he said he had too many doubts, so I said forget it. My daughter was graduating from Texas A&M within the hour. My family from all over the country was here. We made cranberry vodka and had a graduation part and birthday party all weekend, It was a great time with family. So, I am a bit gun shy so soon. Want to have gal friends and learn how to do that again.

Thanks for your reply, it was good to hear from a lady.

The best way I've found is to go (physically) to groups. I'm going to a reading group, a group that studies a spiritual concept, sometimes I go to yoga. I've made a few good friends at Jazzercise. Finding people who like the same things I do makes it really easy to converse with. Sounds kind of simple, but it works for me.