Dear Bbycakys..... that would be great if it were that easy. I don't really want to take the energy now to do that. It's either there or it isn't. My reaction and my chemistry comes from that first full kiss. If they can't kiss good then it just ends the whole thing for me. I TRIED with one guy I dated for a while and he just smashed you so badly that you couldn't use your lips to show him anything. It eventually ended not so much from that but from his anger towards women that he had been harboring all along. Thanks for letting me say my spiel. Raine

It seems that he has an issue with anger, not kissing. Those that have no respect for women or have anger problems cannot be taught. Be there done that also. Good it ended.

I only give my hubby a peck on the cheek or on closed mouth lips. Been married too long, to start probing my tongue inside his silver filled mouth. I don't need to be french kissed either as foreplay. Time is of essence...stick out tongue...put it where it really belongs now. My Husband and I now save our little "pecks" of kisses for goodbyes to work, and before we retire to bed.

Some people believe that lovers are either good kissers or not. Personally, I believe that good kissing can be taught--and learned. Say something like: Let me show you how I like to be kissed. And then show the person. Demonstrate.

Thanks for your comments. I have always found that kissing is where the feelings of love for lack of a better word starts. It has also been a proven fact, however I personally am not found of "french" kissing. A little nibble here and there is fine. I also don't believe you can be married to long. There are times for little "pecks" but I would not want to discard the lengthy ones either.

Here here, Michael I certainly agree.