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Created:: August 8, 2007
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NEED A LIFE

Posted: Jun 19, 08 10:43pm

HI YALL, JUST LIKE THE NAME SAYS I AM A NICEWOMAN EVEN THOUGH NOBODY KNOWS THAT BUT A FEW.ALL I DO IS GO TO WORK AND COME HOME. EVEN ON MY DAYS OFF I HAVE NOTHING TO DO .THE PEOPLE I CALL MY FRIENDS WE'RE PHONE FRIENDS HARDLEY GET TOGETHER. IAM SIN GLE AND THIS SH.... GETS LONESOME AM I THE ONLY ONE WITH THIS TYPE OF LIFE? I MEAN THE LAST RELATIONSHIP LASTED 16 YEARS AND I'VE BEEN SINGLE FOR THE PAST 5 YEARS WHATS UP WITH THAT? SOMEBODODY TALK TO ME PLEASE.

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nicewoman

Posted: Jun 19, 08 10:45pm

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Posted: Jun 19, 08 11:25pm

Hello nicewoman, Been where you are now, sucks. Takes time,but there are people who will want to meet ya. I could start popping out all the words folks have said before, it all comes down to " get up-get out-say howdy" Let me know how you're doing at this. good luck

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richardT

Posted: Jun 20, 08 2:25am

ok.. well try typing without caps unless you yell a lot and that could be a problem.

Its 4:30am and im reading this... what does that tell you, but i dont care all that much anymore.

If you see someone you like do something about about it. The only one who can change this is you. Maybe now your ready to meet someone BUT TALK TO THEM AND STOP SHOUTING!! lol

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Cathiosu

Posted: Jun 20, 08 3:54am

Hi Nicewoman.Truly, the only way to change things in your life is for YOU to change things in your life.

Take baby steps. You don't have to go from a person who always keeps to themself to a wild party girl overnight!

Challenge yourself at least once a week to do something you haven't done. It could be as simple as taking a different route home, going to a different grocery store, checking out a new place for lunch--just go in and pick up a menu.

You have to make it happen. Good luck.

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IsadoraAlman

Posted: Jun 20, 08 7:31am

Cathiosu's advice is excellent. It's your life. It's up to you to make it one you enjoy and not up to your "friends".

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MichaelCastleman

Posted: Jun 20, 08 7:56am

No one can rescue you from a boring life--except you. What activities do you enjoy? Gardening? Dancing? Reading? Tennis? I suggest you do more of them. Are there any groups of people in your area who enjoy doing what you enjoy? I bet there are. I suggest you join them. If you do, I bet that within 6 months or so, you have some new acquaintances who are becoming friends and you feel less lonely.

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Charlie

Posted: Jun 20, 08 8:07am

Hi Nicewoman,

Welcome and seek new friends here.

Charlie

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