I thought it was an interesting discussion and it certainly brought out the closet cases. Too bad it got deleted. Someone may have complained about the language being used (although I don't know how much that should matter in a group called Explicit Sex Talk). The only time I've seen a discussion deleted is if the discussion turns extremely abusive. I didn't see that happening in the discussion, but I may have missed something. You should write to Kat and ask her why it was deleted.

I dont belong to the group "explicit sex talk" so I missed your discussion, sounds like it may have been very interesting

I remember this and several other posts you've made on Explicit Sex and Sex talk.

I don't know why the moderator may have deleted these, but I do consider you fairly argumentative. I'd suspect that's more the reason than rampant homophobia.

Actually, I'm surprised you post in this group as you're very insistent that you are not gay - just a confused het guy who gets hot over anonymous men.

It's ironic, based on how the number and frequency of your 'I'm not gay' posts, I had come to conclude that you were homophobic.

I simply quoted the results of a Kinsey Research Institute study that found that homosexual fantasies are some of the most common sexual fantasies in heterosexual men. Then I posed the question, "how many of you have experienced homosexual fantasies?"

Am I insistent that I'm not gay? I definitely do have a strong gay side. But to say I'm gay is a little misleading, since I have never had a gay experience and am not looking for one. I prefer the term "sexually confused."

You seem consistently hostile toward me. Am I being paranoid or just argumentative? Remember, don't hate me because I'm beautiful.

LorenQ, I think sex_addict is just looking for a place to fit in. He's confused as he said, like a lot of us were at some point in our lives. Remember how difficult that can be?