Sex_addict, you have to remember this America where everything needs a label and you can't color outside the lines and expect a gold star. American men trail most of the world as far as their ability to admit that to have ever had an idea like that could be normal. It's an insecurity issue, I think. It is perfectly ok for them to get excited thinking of two females enjoying each other but let one guy's hand brush another's and shame fills the air. I'm with you as far as the censorship, if this is an adult site, why aren't we free to say whatever crosses our minds as long as we are not insulting another member? All one can do is keep broaching the subject, the more exposed people are to an issue, the more comfortable they become in its presence.

With words like "explicit" and "sex talk" in the same title line, I don't know how anything could be off base... Aside from some serial killer or pedophilia fantasies.... But hey, who am I?

Did the admin send you any sort of notification with explanation?

no.