I'm not dating anyone but I was exchanging messages for awhile with someone and don't hear from him anymore. Maybe their situation has changed somehow? How attached do you feel? I wish we could do stuff together we'd have fun. You and I could go to first night together...substance-free new year's in downtown Burlington...fireworks...we'd have a ball and I could use the company. My daughter has expressed an interest...but she gets bored easily. I want to go to coffee houses and shows...but back on track here...you really need to ask.

Because we have taken the relationship to the next step and spent two separate weekends together and have exchanged those three little words - i really need to know how he feels - he's under stress right now with work so i don't want to bug him either lol

Talking on the phone? Id love to be talking on the phone. I cant get past the occasional e-mails....

Had more than one just stop. no reason no responce just.....eeehhh...Im done I think....poof gone...

Thats usually a good indicater the spark wasnt there....

Be well,

Pat

looks like this situation could already be solved. But yes, the guy has other interest. He most likely has met someone near him and is dating. Hope you too have fun--good luck!

Blondie - what do you mean the situation could already be solved - i'm slow on the uptake.

The spark seemed to be there - you think it went away?

You have met him and spent time with him? Seems you need to talk to him and find out what hes wanting.

Im all about two people talking to each other. It works best for me.

It could be lots of things but you need to talk with him..imo

Be well,

Pat