paula- i am soo so sorry to hear that. my condolences.

my problems are nowhere near that bad, but i still thought i would mention them:

1) i see no avatars at all today. is anyone else experiencing this phenomenon? everyone has been reduced to a small red x. like we are all members of some fascist regime.

2) when i try to import a photo into a thread, with the 'add photos' tool, my photos are restricted to a very small size. A puny size, really. This never happened to me before. What gives?

Seems like there really is a lot of stormy weather happening over at TBD headquarters. I hope everything is okay....?

Dang Paula, Im sorry too. you sure know how to stay single.. Now I have to go check and see if I am too...

My pics work fine, my avatar is fine just the loading of the site in general is wicked slow. I end up closing out of the internet and signing back on.

Poor Paula...life is tough out in TBD land uh? .... LOL

Really, when I have problems I go to the bottom and place a work order to repair my site. This does get their attention and Ms. Kat always responds with the utmost urgency and the problems are usually patched right away..

Might just try that Paula...

Good luck on your new search.

Such lovely supporters! Thank you!

I hesitate to kvetch at times because I used to design computer systems and...well...not to be rude to the hard-working folks here...but...I was trained to test a system so thoroughly that "a monkey should be able to jump up and down on the keyboards and nothing should brake!"

Seriously! My first and best-boss-ever said that way back when. They just don't make em like they used to!