Hi, Jeanette. Thank you for responding. In my letter from my bio-father he indicated the many times I had reached out to him and how he wasn't there for me. He apologized sincerely. So you see, I did send photos, letters, phone calls, etc. over the years. Yet, his insensitivity pushed me away. Also, 6 months ago, I did write him a letter expressing my true feelings, my childhood experiences, my hurts, etc. and it took him 6 months to (as he said) to 'find the courage' to respond. Your advice is excellent, for you see I've tried everything you suggested. All I want now is to be left alone. I just want him to take my forgiveness and let it be; done, over with. I'm fine without him. I started a letter to him last night and, in it, I am straight up. My intention is not to hurt him deliberately but, if the truth hurts, then so be it. He just needs to understand I don't need him anymore and do not want him as part of my life. It's as simple as that. If my children wish to be part of his life, they're welcomed to do so. Everyone makes mistakes. All I want is for him to forgive himself and leave me alone. You're cool, Jeanette, and wise; and it means a lot to me that you took the time to respond with worthy advice. If I haven't already done so, I would take what you have to say and run with it. Take care.