Posted: Jan 26, 08 5:39pm
Hi. I have been a member of TBD for a few months. I just found & joined this group. What attracted me to this group was the part about "I've had enough; I'm ready to walk out" (at least that's what I think it said)So, my first post: I know it sounds awful, but It's (Mostly) His Fault is the title to a book I just bought. I am halfway through with it & it is a great book! It was written by a marriage counselor, a man, even, who has been counseling couples for 35 years. I can't believe how right on he is. I would recommend this book to anyone that has ever been or ever plans to get married. It has already helped me. My marriage has been in trouble for 20 years. I am married to a man that refuses to admit he has any emotions. We have four mostly grown daughters that he has never been available to emotionally. He does pretty much what he wants, when he wants with little or no regard for the rest of us. He is extremely self-involved & self-centered. I have been ready to walk for quite some time. When I saw this book at out local Barnes & Noble I was completely turned off by the title, but something made me pick it up & read the jacket back. I'm not saying this is the magic trick, but I think, if I can get him to read it, that we may have a chance.
If I can get him off the computer, e-mailing, IMing, etc, to all these forums he belongs to, we might have 1/2 a chance!
