Posted: Aug 31, 08 1:31am

I'll begin by saying I am a mother of 4 2 grandchildren. We got married he was 18 I was 24 and 2 kids 1 & 3. He was a man that took care of our went to work everyday never complained. He never drank or hung out. When got preg with 3rd one and the 4th he still went to work. We moved to myrtle beac 13 years ago he was on disability we were best friends spent every min of the day with him. We didn't have any money sonetimes had to collect change for milk but we were happy. He got qa job working for a company in video poker bus. The state ban it in 2000 and we both lost our jobs. U were still able to operate in NC so we opened our first place and made a fortune so then another one and then he had a huge route making alot of money. He didnt want to work so he had control over everything I trusted him with my entire life. He got more distant doing whatever he wanted was unaccountable to anyone. We were arguing alot only because he never came home. i TRUSTED this man never a doubt. March 22, 2008 he walked out on me and my family 1 day before our 20 annv never called anyone that was easter sunday too. Since then found out he had a goodfriend and that they are living in a double gated comm on waterway she doesnt work he supports her he has taken her to fla, vegas, bahamas and tells me were broke were not even legally separated yet. I have had to pay 35,000.00 in legal retainer he almost destroyed me he has destroyed my children what do I dowhen will it even and he doesnt even care. help help