Posted: Jan 26, 08 1:34pm

What would you do if you thought your wife is cheating? You have a little evidence, from some undeleted emails. Words and phrases that seems to tell of a relationship. Disecting the email word por word, you cannot pinpoint a damning evidence. The fact can possibly lie between an onset of a relationship or perhaps it can possibly have just been already consummated. You have very little chance though of finding out as you are on a short period of overseas posting. Of course unless they continue it until you get back home and you do some more sleuthing yourself. But hell, can you wait another couple of months when it seems your marriage is already in the lions den?

Should you wait for a more solid evidence before pouncing on her (but if she hasn't started it yet, you are guilty of letting her commit infidelity and destroy your marriage where you could have stopped it before it started)

Or, should you throw the towel to her face now but with little evidence, you could end up on the stick.