personally?

Role playing...

Imagination...

and a good smack on the ass.

how's that?

Hmmmm thats nice, maybe a little bite too!

I become wild by:

My partner's throes of passion; her body's excited movements; words, moans and heavy, labored breathing; and the finger-nailed grip of her hands on my shoulder or back.

And her kissing during sex is fiery indeed, not just to the mouth, but neck and shoulders too. Sometimes there is a fine line between a strong kiss and a gentle bite.

Most of all, it is the feel of her that is most arousing. Nothing can match the sensation of a turned-on woman.

It varies a great deal from person to person. But quite often, if you tell a lover: I want to drive you wild, in the ensuing discussion , you learn how. You might also share what drives YOU wild. Hearing a woman describe what drives her wild drives many men wild.

Thank you

WOW !!

Speaking as a woman (long married and happy) I think that the assurance that her husband/lover is entirely sexually "captivated" by her "sex" is enough to drive a woman wild. If that magic is there~ two people can go anywhere within the agreed upon erotic realms and settle back to earth feeling very satisfied and deeply connected to one another. Of course "captivation" should be a mutual event. Focus, attention, and a healthy respect for one others sexual fantasies make can keep things hot/wild for decades!