I can find myself fantasizing at any time and many times the thing that sets them off and running can be found in the ordinary day to day, perhaps im in a secluded public location (ongoing one for me) and i begin to wonder about that experience other times its inspired by something i have seen or even read/wrote. I too have an active imagination so its easy and quite enjoyable for me. There have been a couple of occasions where the postings here had my thoughts wandering as to what it would be like to experience what im reading about. Its pretty natural i think, i mean we do it when reading a novel, thats why the movies never do the book justice. The physical scenes we imagine are always more detailed, we tend to smell the scents, tastes, feel the skin, and hear what we want to hear etc., in a setting thats most desirable to us such as your description..It got me thinking..lol See it happens at anytime!!...

My wife and I were making love. I looked into her vacant eyes and said, "You can't think of anyone else, either, huh?"

lol..that was funny Leo...Actually making love with a woman is the one time i'm unable to fantasize, i'm way too lost in the experience of it, all of my physical senses are being stimulated, its really the one time my mind is actually quiet....Seems as though you and the Mrs. are doing something right!

If I do, it is usually a fantasy about my husband, myself, and another female. I fantasize about seeing him with another woman. That is not to say I really want it to happen. Purely a fantasy. :)

I used to have fanatsies about a woman I worked with...most or wich lead to very erotic night dreams.

I have a male friend who fantasizes about being with me and another male friend of mine. I don't see that fantasy being played out, but it has been a lot of fun to talk about with its originator.

Yeah I think the discussion about the fantasy is just as hot as the actual fantasy.