Posted: May 7, 08 9:17am

I've gotten some great messages from men regarding porn and what it means to them. I appreciate your honesty. I would like to know if the situation was reversed, how would you feel? I know men think differently than women... so what bothers most of us - might not bother most of you but this is my question. Let's say i'm your wife..... Let's say you are between the ages of 40-60. Let's say you have back hair - a few age spots, things are starting to droop and sag. You penis isn't as rock hard as it used to be. Let's say you don't have the muscle tone you used to have and maybe your hair is thinning, gray or bald. Maybe your complextion is a little more ruddy or not quite as youthful. Maybe your nose and ears are starting to appear larger. Maybe you have body hair coming out of your nose and ears as well. You get the picture...Lets say i'm your wife or significant other. Well, let's say sexually you aren't really what i had in mind anymore. Maybe i'd like a youthful muscular body of a young man with a dick that still points towards the sun and stays hard forever and can go for as long as i wish. It's as big as i want and fills me completely. Well, your a guy - you get horney, right? Well, let's say - i don't want to suck you cock but instead i want to watch porn alone and fantasize about sucking that hot young man's cock instead. Because nothing turns me on more than sucking a hard hot cock. Not only that, but i refuse to let you watch me play with my pussy while i do it. Let's say i like to stay up late at night, rarely come to bed with you and don't really have the time or desire to suck your cock. I also like talking to other men about my sexual desires and how much i love to *uck... How do you feel? Is this behavior acceptable to you? Would you have any complaints? Let's face it porn is someone "acting" for the camera for their moment of fame so to speak. I'm guessing most men don't have a dick as big as most of the dicks in porn and that your body isn't as muscular either. I'm also guessing that maybe you don't have the same talents as the performers on those shows just as your current wives may not possess the talents and/or knowledge boasted of by men that porn stars (women) have..... do you get where i'm going with this ? Let's have some honesty here. If you are neglecting your husbandly duties to your spouse and not taking the time to *uck her senseless, and explore her every crevice then she has every right to *itch about your porn watching and it doesn't mean she has insecurities - it just means that you are being a dick for not being a better spouse. If your spouse has a problem with it then it's a problem, don't you think? If you aren't getting sex from your wife and you tried everything to make it better and it hasn't worked, then all bets are off - whack n watch away mmm a new website idea www.whacknwatch.com or maybe wachnwhack- just kidding lol - anyway i hope i've made myself clear, have I .... do you know where i'm going with this.... do you have any compassion for the women in your life that are frustrated and hurt by the double standard? Answer away - if you need anything clarified, ask me and i will elaborate.