I've never had it willingly. I think i was phone sex raped via my ear? Is that possible. I noticed while i was dating a certain someone. I was talking to him and i noticed it was kind of quiet on his end except for a distinct noise and a couple of moans. I was very turned off by it. I guess because it was like there i am...talking about the weather or something and someone is whacking off to my voice without my permission!!!! I confronted him on it and he admitted it and that it hadn't been the first time he had done it. I guess he liked my voice but it was creepy. If it was concentual i would be all for it. And OMG could i use something concentual at the moment - can i give my number out guys? lol I love this post thought Kat -a great one - you will have to give me an idea of what you talk about. Have you had phone sex with the same sex too? I used to go to chat rooms because well, i thought they were for chatting - there i am typing away with a new person and they are like "do you want to see a pic of me or see my webcam?" innocently, i'm like sure - only to open a photo or webcam and have the image be of a man's penis or him doing something to his penis. Has this happened to anyone else? With that said, i have been quilty of sending suggestive photos but i gave them a warning first.

Be very careful of phone sex.

You might end up with Hearing AIDS.

Thought about phone sex once but then got concerned about ear infections.

You guys are killing me...hearing aids, ear infections. lol

Regarding Disenchanted's comments, a guy jerking off while on the phone with you is not phone sex in my book, it's just creepy.

I haven't done same sex anything yet. (Never close the door to anything though.) I have a chat friend who would be the woman I would cyber with if I ever decided to go that route...just the chat conversations we have sizzle. I can only imagine how great she would be with phone sex.

I have a few friends I have had phone sex with. It started accidentally as I mentioned when a man with an amazing voice that I knew through chat and had cybered with was talking about how hot one of our cyber sessions was, his voice and words just started getting me off. I could feel every word of the description through my entire body. I said nothing, but was moaning and panting enjoying the "sex", I could feel myself cumming just from his words and the power of my mind. I loved it. And just hearing me get off was enough to push him over the edge.

Now, I have finally reached the point where I can take full control of a call or have equal participation. (I used to feel bad about not holding up my end of the conversation. lol)

Bad phone sex is just as bad as any other form of bad sex. But, I'm betting some of you know that.

You referred in your original posting to paid phone sex lines.

I've never been into anything as sordid as that, but I have "skype" and other on-line facilities for free calls to anywhere in the world, but I seldom use them. The written word should convey everything necessary, but I can see how the use of skype could develop into steamy conversations.

Sadly, time zones tend to dictate how frivolous someone might want to be.

I look at anything that involves video too differently than I do phone sex. Webcam stuff can sizzle too, but is trickier to make it work well. Phone sex just comes down to the words and the voice...mmmm, the voice.

I had a friend from the UK who used to call me several mornings a week for a while. His voice, his accent...wow, talk about wake-up sex.

For you, I'd make an exception.

I was told Sean Connery is trying to learn from me, but I really doubt that.

I think she was just being nice.