Nope! I love it when the woman brings out the vibrator. There's something more exciting about her being free enough with me for her to do that. Drives me CRAZY!

(But its a short drive anyway)

Yes, I've had this discussion. If I'm in a playful mood, my guy is game; he doesn't want to waste the mood on playing with anything except him.

LOL. Want a date.

To me, depending on the tension at the time, a vibrator can heat the tension up to sizzling. However, like you said Diane. Different strokes for different folks.

I have never been with a man who was turned off when I've pleasured myself. I'm not sure if you mean using a vibrator while with a man, or alone, but either way, toys are fun and playful.

I meant with your partner.

I love watching a woman get off with her vibrator.