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I can't believe what I'm reading here!

Posted: Jun 9, 08 7:39pm

I know I'm sexually liberal...but have you people had your juices just dry up completely?

I'm 53 years old and still don't have the conservative attitudes that many of you hold.This should get the ball rolling and even better if some of you agree with me.

1) Virginity is only important to those who have yet to lose theirs.

2) Our spouses are not our possessions.

3) In a perfect world we would have sex with our friends in the same way we hug or kiss them...just to do something nice with them or for them... and we would ask only that our spouses love us not demand that they be ever faithful to us.

4) I'm not a big fan of kinky sex but to each his own. As for gay marriage... since I'm straight I'm not qualified to judge. I guess love is love and we should allow them the legal rights that come with a commitment.

So whose with me whose against me?

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21 Comments // 17 Members

KenWritez

Posted: Jun 9, 08 10:02pm

Man, it sounds like you're the one who's repressed because you're getting your knickers in a twist over people who hold different opinions than you do about sex and relationships.

I'm glad you know what you believe, perpetually undecided people are boring and you don't strike me as that.

I disagree with you on #1 and #3 but agree with you on #2 and #4.

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renewed0608

Posted: Jun 10, 08 7:27am

I agree with most of what KenWritez is saying.

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KatherineHughes

Posted: Jun 10, 08 8:19am

Have to agree with Ken here... why get so wound up when people don't have the same attitudes about sex that you do?

For instance... why do we have "kinky sex" and "gay marriage" in the same topic heading? I sure wouldn't have grouped them together.

I also think it's a pretty big jump to assume that people's juices are dried up simply because they have some conservative ideas about sex. For years I lived the very model of Christian marriage - monogamy, cleaving together, forsaking all others, the whole bit - and I GUARANTEE that it was pretty darned far from dried up.

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Rick Hearn

Posted: Jun 10, 08 8:26am

GOD ALMIGHTY!! LMAO! Mic, did you ever open a Pandora's Box!! hahahaha. I'm not even sure I should touch this subject,,hehe. I'm hated enough already!

God help us all in this leaky boat!

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renewed0608

Posted: Jun 10, 08 12:40pm

I am not dried up.

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SusieQ321

Posted: Jun 10, 08 12:58pm

why does it matter? People are different where ever you go.... so if I disagree with you am I wrong in your eyes... even if I am right in other peoples eyes...

My POV is if you aren't having sex with me it is none of my business who you are having sex with or how or where when and the rest of it... as long as you enjoy it make it as kinky as you want or as straight as you want.

And I agree with point two. And since when is gay sex kinky?

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RolloTomasi

Posted: Jun 10, 08 6:28pm

SusieQ321 wrote:

why does it matter? People are different where ever you go.... so if I disagree with you am I wrong in your eyes... even if I am right in other peoples eyes...

My POV is if you aren't having sex with me it is none of my business who you are having sex with or how or where when and the rest of it... as long as you enjoy it make it as kinky as you want or as straight as you want.

And I agree with point two. And since when is gay sex kinky?

Bravo SuzieQ, Who but God is qualified to judge what we do? If I don't agree with something what difference does it make? If I pursuade someone to my way of thinking, did I do them a service? Or are they just as confused as me now?

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