It's true that a woman can be too thin. I recall a couple of women who had model-thin bodies and it just wasn't as much fun. Another thing women may not realize is that many of the porn movies have women that are not thin at all, but are on the meaty side. As a matter of fact, some of the movies which were exciting to me had a woman with a body style quite similar to my wife's. Hmm.

Because they never listen, right guys?

I'm listening Scarecrow.

:-)

I must be blessed. My husband doesn't need to watch porn before he has sex with me. I hope to be his forever young and his seductive "porn star". So, this means I have to be very creative with my moves in bed. I watch porn to "learn". Medicinal XXX can prove for a healthy, happy marriage. So, the man you talked to, is really no "man" at all. Shit, I wish I would weigh 125 lbs. Those were the days...now my body seems to have down-shifted abit. My weight remains stable but now there is a couple of jiggles, here and there. Sexier to Love I say.

125 and he things she's carrying an extra 10 pounds? how tall is she? 4'-5"?

There is no typical body type that applies to all men or all women. Some men prefer tall, thin, overweight, skin and bones, etc. Also, you can't have sex with a movie or a photo layout, and it's all about what's between your ears, your communications skills, and how open minded you are (and the you refers to both men and women).

Yes, you are.

You and your hubby are very blessed.

I'm envious.

He loves his wife and finds her very attractive. This was not a comment on him or his 'manliness'.

This was a comment that he finds her more sensuous because she is carrying a bit more weight than she is comfortable with.

He finds her more attractive now, not less.

What I wanted to discuss was the notion that what 'looks good' may not 'feel good'.

And is this really true? That a man may look at a very thin porn star and become aroused visually, but when push came to shove they would rather make love to a woman with a little more weight - a woman who may be more tactilely arousing.