I have dabbled in wax,hand cuffs, restraints,been whipped a few times, harness. The person I was with wasn't experienced in it...so I feel I was probably short changed in the whole experience.

I have a tie fetish, so restraints if any are usually neck ties, sometimes silk scarves. Same for blindfolds.

I love playing with ice cubes and candle wax.

I have a male friend who is into dominance and I have been curious what a weekend with him would be like, but I've never accepted the invitation yet.

I also have some curiosity about being a Mistress, but have mainly kept that interest in my choice of books so far and a little online play.

Golden showers and watersports and analingus????????? Yes we do.

hmmm .. boy even the first few comments were interesting.

Loren, sometimes I'm not sure there's a LOT of space between silk scarves and floggers. Seems to be an easy stop for me.

And ice, candle wax, restraints, a soft flogger, orgasm control .... they all sound like a delightful saturday nite!

Nice question, LorenQ. I suppose everyone is kinky in their own way. Sex is so special and unique. Hubby and I are kinky in that we enjoy power exchange - which usually means I play the "Mistress" and use/abuse him (in a way he loves!).

Mainstream thought holds that often "kinky" activities are not consensual or are perverted (hurtful), but true BDSM play is not. We enjoy using chains, cuffs, floggers, gags, ass plugs, and strap-ons. However, we didn't play this way until we hit around 44 - after we'd been married 20 years! We went to BDSM workshops/conventions and learned hands-on how to do impact play and tieing your partner up responsibly and in a fun/exciting way. One thing I have learned in the past six years or so is that sexuality can be broadened and deepened over the years. : )

I have participated in some light bondage and blindfolding. Ice is definitely a regular part of my sexual experience.

I am all for "kinky" in any form that is mutually accepted among the participants as long as no harm comes from it. I am open to almost anything, but my wife is more on the sedate side, so I just get kinky in my mind.