When I had a cyber relationship we would make cyber 'dates', just like we would have done if we were meeting face to face.

Mostly it was weekday evenings, but sometimes it was in the afternoon and sometimes it was on the weekend, it just depended.

Why do you ask?

Just curious. Was the cybering frustrating at times?

There is no time for me that is one of the exciting things about it, but it is VERY FRUSTRATING...My biggest problem is wanting to make it real.

Never having done this, am I missing something? What's exciting about cyber talk?

After all, it "just a fantasy, it's not the real thing" and there's nothing like the real thing!

Or as U2 might say is it ...

"Even Better Than The Real Thing."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjRapZVwpqs

Nope. It was never frustrating.

To me it was like an interactive romance scene in a book. My parner was really, really good at texting.

When we did voice it was different, but still fulfilling. I liked hearing the way his voice changed and the little sounds he made.

Whenever in the evening before I head out for dinner, after dinner before bed... when do you find time to talk to friends you can find time to cyber.

And I don't find it frustrating I find it freeing easier to experimented with new ideas and push my self imposed limits.. and exploring new things....

It is all in how you look at it and do it

OK...this may be the dumbest and most naive question ever posed on the internet.

Where do you go to find this cyber-talk? And are we talking about explicit sexual stuff? Or is this more of a forum like we have here where people talk about sex, but don't TALK sex?

Call me a 50 year old newbie I guess.

I don't know if I could actually have an erotic sexual conversation with a stranger, but curiosity wants to know for sure.