I'm sure you will get as many different answers as there are women, but I will give you my perspective.

For me, it is A LOT of foreplay... and I don't just mean in the bedroom. I love it when it starts hours earlier.

The flirtations, the rubbing up against each other, the deep, passionate kisses and then breaking away.

Whispering in each others ears about what we want to do to each other... furtive glances across a room.... perhaps him grabbing me and playing with my breasts and pussy for a short while but not allowing me to reach orgasm.... doing that several times throughout the day builds up the anticipation of release to an almost painful point... but it hurts sooooooo good!

Undressing me slowly.... him taking command and directing what he'd like me to do.... seeing and feeling how much he is turned on by me.

Once undressed, stimulation with his hands and mouth while talking to me.... getting naughtier and naughtier as things get more heated. Oral stimulation of my breasts... then down to my pussy... and just when I'm about to peak, to drive his hardness inside deep and hard and just hold himself there while our eyes are locked.

Having him pin me down and just take me... then to feel him exploding inside me takes me right over the edge with him.... especially if we maintain eye contact.

That is the greatest orgasm for me... cumming together with eyes locked.

uh huh.. Maria, you've done it again. That explanation is right up my alley.

OMG that is so hot!

it all started with a look from across the the car on our way out to wander the antique shops near us. Then he reached over and caresses my breast, teasing my nipples to erection. If I tried to reach for him, he swated my hand.. When we got to the little town of antique stores, he pulled me over for a deep kiss and reached under my skirt and removes my panties before I can get out of the car. The next few hours are spent teasing me, kissing my neck as he stands behind me, sucking my earlobe; as his hand reaches around to caress my breast, as he kisses me again. Breaking the kiss when I start to breath harder. He pulls me into a private area in a corner to show me something, having me stand in front on him...then very easily slide one hand under my skirt to dip into my now wet pussy and teases my clit just long enough for my breath to catch, then he steps away. When I turn to look at him, he puts his finger into his mouth, smiles and winks. This goes on for the next two hours, I can't take anymore and tell him I want to go home. Once in the car, he just smiles at me and decided to take the long way home! As I began to protest he reaches over and pulls my legs toward him, bringing one of them up on the seat and then slides two fingers into me, while his thumb rubs my clit. This is making me moan and pant, I wonder if anyone passing by can see what he is doing and I realize I don't really care. As he watches me, he could tell that I am close to a double orgasm and he stops! I cry out for him to please continue, but he just smiles and then strokes me every so often to keep me close. When we finally arrived home, he pulls me from the car and takes me into the kitchen where he sits me on the counter and he pulls up a chair. He spreads my legs and begins to suck my clit and lick me, driving me closer to my orgasm. Just before I cum, he stands and undoes his own pants, and thrusts into me, still rubbing my clit with his thumb. We are rocking hard against each other, watching each other as we both near a full release. Just as I explode, he pulls out and goes down on me again, to suck out my cum, licking me harder and sucking me with hunger, bringing me back to the edge of another one, then he thrusts into me again and I scream with another fast release and he lets loose inside me, pumping till he is spent and I am shaking. That was the best it's ever been, and he has promised to do it again...real soon!!

both of you ladies nailed this

And how incredible it is for us men to give such women such passionate pleasure!

I would not often speak for my wife, but if she were here I know how she would respond based on what I have observed and experienced with her for years. She is a woman of passion and intellect. Her mind and body flow together. It is not so much a matter of what someone physically does that arouses her but the degree to which the other person is willing to touch her mind and body and welcome the same in return.